(Closed) Do I give wedding party thank you cards before or after wedding?

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: Give wedding party thank you cards before or after the wedding?
    Before the wedding with their gift : (11 votes)
    85 %
    After the wedding : (0 votes)
    Give a special thank you card before AND after the wedding : (2 votes)
    15 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    8354 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: March 2011

    We are going to give them their gifts prior to the wedding and then when I write the thank you notes for everyone else, I will write and send theirs to them.

    Post # 4
    Member
    6598 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2010

    I am giving my WP nice special thank you cards with their gifts at the RD.

    But will also be sending them the typical thank you card after the wedding for their gift etc.

    Post # 5
    Member
    9057 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2010

    Oh, I misread before I voted I think.  I gave them their special thankyou note at the rehearsal dinner, and now will send them the same thankyou card everybody’s getting for their gifts. 

    So, yes thankyou card before and after, but only once special

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