- 6 years ago
Fiance went out with his friends tonight for some drinks which is totally fine with me – I left him alone all night, no texts or whatever. He took our car, and was planning on dropping it off in town and taking the bus back home. At around midnight he texted some sort of drunken nonsense which I thought was funny at first, but then he texted me “I’m driving drunk.” I immediately texted back telling him he better not be, etc etc. No answer for 30 minutes. When he does reply, it’s another very drunken misspelled text saying he’s “on the pull” which is slang for basically picking up women. Which I think was a joke, but still..wtf?
At around 1, I said I was going to bed. He called me three times in a row, sounding more wasted than I’ve ever heard. He told me he was alone, no idea where he was, no idea where his friends were, and he’d missed the last bus. I was kind of annoyed and being witchy and asked how he figured he’d get home. He said he didn’t know. I told him to take a taxi, figure it out, and call me back.
When he called back, all he said was “I’m driving.” and hung up. I panicked a bit, knowing how trashed he is, and called him immediately. No answer. I finally got ahold of him and he said he was walking home (it would be a long walk, it’s about 25 minutes by car, so..probably not a good idea!)
From 1:30 – 2:15 a.m., there was a very frustrating back and forth on the phone. I kept trying to figure out where the hell he is and what he’s doing, he had zero answers because he’s so drunk, he kept hanging up the phone, etc. Now he brought the car into town, so I have no way to get to him or even try to find him. The last time I called was around 2:30. He picked up the phone, but didn’t say anything. I heard the radio and music in the background – it sounded like he was in a car. Then the phone cut off.
It is now 10 to 4 in the morning, I haven’t heard a peep from him since 2:15. He has not answered any more of my calls or texts. I don’t know if I’m over-worrying..I go back and forth between being pissed and being sick to my stomach worrying that something’s happened. I’m sincerely hoping he’s just passed out drunk in his car in some parking lot, but I’m also really angry.
It’s out of character for him so I know I should go easy but…WTF?? First he jokes about drunk driving, then about picking up women, then this whole fiasco about getting home…and now no word for nearly 2 hours. I don’t know what to do 🙁
And when he walks in tomorrow morning (I’m assuming), what do I say??