Do I have to ask wedding party

posted 3 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
Member
5460 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

@ecrowe1218:  Meh, you can hold off to ask anyone officially.  Your sisters will help you if you need it regardless of being in the wedding party 🙂  Wait until 6-9 months prior to allow enough time to order dresses and alterations and stuff.

Post # 4
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42453 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@ecrowe1218:  At some point if you want them to have a particular role, i.e. walk down the aisle ahead of you and stand at the front of the church, you will have to ask them to be a bridesmaid. How else are they going to know they are attending as other than a guest?

You don’t have to do it right now, nor do you have to do it in a gimmicky way.

 

Post # 5
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9137 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2013 - St. Augustine Beach, FL

I would wait until it’s time to roder bridesmaid dresses.  A lot can happen in the next year and a half that may make you regret your decision.  Plus, there really aren’t any bridesmaid “duties” for them until 6-9 months before your wedding.

Post # 6
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2562 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

No just wait on it. I wish I hadn’t asked so early – I think I would have tried to have fewer girls if I knew THEN what I know NOW.

But you will have to ask them eventually. 🙂
Doesn’t need to be fancy, they just need to know what you expect of them.

Post # 7
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2132 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

since it is all family, I’m guessing you won’t change your mind.  I’d ask them now.  You don’t have to do something elaborate but you should ask them if they would be your bridesmaid (no one just simply assumes they are one)

Post # 8
Hostess
22134 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2011

You don’t have to do it right now and you don’t need to make a big deal about it, but I’d make sure you let them know “officially” at some point just so there’s no confusion. 

Post # 9
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7654 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

You don’t have to do anything right now. At some point you will probably want to ask them if they want to. It would also be a good idea especially if you are picking out bridesmaids dresses.

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