(Closed) Do I have to include his sister?

posted 5 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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1828 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

You are supposed to have those who are closest to you in your party. If your FI wants her on the party then how about considering having a groomsmaid? 

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I don’t think there is anything wrong with not asking her to be your bridesmaid. As Luayne said, BMs are usually those closest to the bride. As for your FI asking his sister’s partner to be a groomsman, he’s doing it to get closer to someone important to his sister, who’s HIS family member. I don’t think it’s rude at all, especially if you really are only asking a few close friends to be bridesmaids.

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

@MrsCreeToBe:  Ok then don’t worry about it. If you want her to be involved then just give her a reading or put her in charge of the guest book or something like that but she doesn’t have to be in your bridal party…there is no obligation and after her remark to your mother I wouldn’t ask her at all!

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