- 7 years ago
- Wedding: May 2012
Ok, so this whole story begins this Christmas 2010. On Christmas DAY morning, my sister and I got into an arguement over something that happened christmas eve. In the middle of the arguement my sister screams, ” Why don’t you ask you B**ch wife” six (6) times from the top of the steps. My fiance was downstairs and could hear the whole thing. She began to cry hysterically and called her parents. My sister had no reason to do this, as i was in an argument with her that didn’t even involve my fiance. I sat down with my sister this past february and had a long discussion. I gave her my fiances number and she agreed to call and apologize. She didn’t. I asked her repeatedly the past four months and she still didn’t. This past weekend was my cousins wedding. During the wedding, my sister came up to my fiance and stated this apology, “sorry for christmas, hug.” Then got up and walked away. Incredibly insincere. My fiance and I weren’t even going to invite her to the wedding, but decided now that we would. We even decided to have her read some scripture, which we feel is awful generous. My mom says we HAVE to put her in our wedding party, but I don’t feel that she can be trusted and still feel that my fiance and I deserve more respect and a sincere apology. If you were in this situation, would you want your sister in your bridal party? Also, my sister and I haven’t gotten along for ~3 years now. She’s turning 33 this year and is 9 years older than me, but has never acted like a big sis.