Do I invite her because I'm her daugther's godmother? (long rant!)

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Member
4163 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2012 - Baltimore Museum of Industry

NO!!!, you don’t have to invite her. 🙂

And if you feel the need to help this family out financially in the future, maybe grocery store gift cards instead of cash. Or even purchasing specific items- “What do you need? I can buy about $XX worth of groceries for you.” If she truly needs the money for that purpose, she’ll take you up on it.

Post # 5
Member
1613 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@MrsRevolutionize:  NO she is not invited and “M” needs to be made aware of this.

Tell her that she is not welcomed by you, your Fi, no your parents AND you wish she would not talk about the wedding to her whatsoever.

If she does call you say “the guest list has been decided and I can not make changes”

If she threatnes to show up, have a hostess at the door with a list of who is invited.

Post # 7
Member
5012 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2014

NO WAY JOSE! Do NOT invite her!

Post # 8
msjackrabbitMember
1080 posts
Bumble bee

no freaking way.

don’t feel like you ‘have’ to invite anyone. invite whoever you want.

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