(Closed) Do I invite them??

posted 5 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
8361 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

Only invite them if you want them to come. If they are overseas and are wanting a trip to Australia then your wedding might be the push to get them there. So I wouldn’t send an invite unless you were happy to have them attend.

Post # 4
9619 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2019

@j_jaye:  +1

Don’t feel you have to send them an invite just because you asked for their addresses. Only send the STD to them if you want them to attend 🙂

Post # 5
3572 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

If you don’t feel like you’re close, don’t invite them. That’s ok. 

Post # 7
9619 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2019

@Nic01:  If you definitely want them to come, invite them, they can choose whether or not to come. And if you feel silly about inviting them after a lack of contact, maybe start up the contact again? But if you aren’t entirely sure then don’t send them a STD.

Post # 8
206 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I say don’t invite! Don’t feel pressured to send one out just because you’ve asked for the address. 

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