(Closed) Do I invite them?

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
Member
1638 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I think if you have room then invite him. Obviously it would mean a lot to you and him. If his wife doesn’t want to share your special day then she doesn’t have to go! Even if she makes him not go at least you were nice and sent the invitation so he doesn’t feel left out.

Post # 4
Hostess
16217 posts
Honey Beekeeper

I personally say yes, invite him. It will mean the world to him, your friend, and honestly, you probably will hardly even know his wife is there. I’m not sure how big your wedding is, but even with a slimmer guest list, you still don’t get to spend a ton of time with your guests. And maybe his wife will have to be on good behavior when she sees how happy her husband is to be there.

Post # 5
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1927 posts
Buzzing bee

I agree you should go ahead and invite them.  If the wife really doesn’t like you then she will probably just choose not to attend and then your friend will come alone.. and everyone wins.

Post # 7
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7152 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

I say invite him. It seems that it means more for you to have HIM there than to not have HER there.

Post # 8
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1498 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I’d invite him.

Post # 9
Member
2589 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

I’d invite him (and yes, his nagging bitchwife). If she doesn’t want to go, she can stay home. 😉

Post # 10
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7152 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

@Statutory Grape: Off subject: Your name made me gasp until I noticed the second word….that’s funny!!

Post # 11
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2589 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

I aim to please! 🙂

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