(Closed) Do I need to send an invite…

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

It might be nice to send two, but I don’t think it really matters.  As long as they aren’t moving any time soon, just send one.

Post # 4
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Yes, it is appropriate that you send a seperate invite to all the adult head of households.

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

I would send a separate invite for each couple.

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2008

I didn’t follow the rule of sending a separate invite to the adult children in their parents’ homes. And if it’s family, you can clarify by mouth that your SIL can bring her BF. That’s how we did it, my fiance’s brother asked us if he could bring his GF before we even sent out invites. 

We just sent an additional invite to his brothers’ girlfriend at her house.

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

If kids living at home are over the age of 18 then you should send a seperate invite to each person.  One addressed to MIL and another to SIL/ Her BF.  Because SIL is in a serious (I would assume:) relationship with BF then his name should also appear on her invitation.  I know it seems tedious, but it makes for better relationships later.  My FI’s borthers live at home with their mom and we are sending seperate save the dates and invitations to each person.  Both brothers mentioned that they liked getting their own save the dates BTW.

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Send one to SIL/BF together and one to MIL (as long at the SIL/BF are adults which I’m assuming they are?).

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