- 3 years ago
- Wedding: September 2014
So me and FI go to one of his friends houses a bit because he lives on a good size pond that we bring our boat over to go fishing. His friend has a girlfriend who is 31, friend is 26-27 I forget. Not that age matters. Everyone has told him time and time again that she’s no good for him. She’s still married, but I guess legially seperated. Who know’s where he husband is, but she says her and friend are engaged. (didn’t know this could happen) Anyways. we were over there the other night and I’ve been nothing but nice to this person. I’m a very quite person, but when I see her I always try to say hi to her and smile.
Now while this girl is 31 and still married she has two kids by two different people and she didn’t like the first guy she was with so she said he raped her. (how nice to lie about something like that)
So when I saw her the other night I smied at her and went to say hi and before I could say hi she looked right at me and said don’t smile at me or talk to me or even look at me. I couldn’t believe it. I didn’t even do anything.
Now she had come home drunk, while driving her little girl in the car as well. That’s a different story for the type of parent she is. I would need all day to tell you about her parenting skills.
FI didn’t hear what she said, but I quickly asked if we could go home and I told him what she said in the car. He was very upset with this.
So she decided to text my FI saying she was sorry for what she said to your girl (meaning me), but she thinks I’m snotty.
Which that’s a first, you can ask anyone I know I’ve never been called snotty in my whole life. EVER!
FI laid into her and said that it was uncalled for and that I’ve been nothing but nice to her and that she needs to sobber up and stop living in high school.
All his friends have backed him up and me up saying how she’s been is uncalled for.
I told FI I didn’t want her to come to the wedding because she makes me feel really uncofortable. Am I wrong for saying that I don’t want her to come?
Should she be aloud to come after her always being negative towards me?
We still want to invite FI’s friend, but we don’t feel like that girlfriend should come because of how she acts. FI’s friend also laid into her and said she needs to clean up her act.
So I’m not sure what to do. I’m very hurt by how she’s treating me because I’ve done nothing wrong and I’m not sure if she’s just jealous because she doesn’t have what I have. I’m really not sure.