(Closed) Do i still invite them?

posted 5 years ago in Reception
Post # 3
Member
286 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Once you send out a save the date you have to invite them. I don’t think they’d show up without a real invite but not sending one lets them know they’ve been “uninvited,” which I think is rude.

Post # 4
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4717 posts
Honey bee

I think you’re kind of obligated to invite them, but it doesn’t mean they’ll come. 

This is exactly why I’m starting to think that STDs should be reserved for the “absolutely will be invited and would be really upset if they didn’t come” list. 

Post # 5
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9057 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

@mepayne:  “This is exactly why I’m starting to think that STDs should be reserved for the “absolutely will be invited and would be really upset if they didn’t come” list.”

This. Someone should make a post with this advice and like sticky it to the front page of the bee for all eternity. 

But yes, at this point you kinda need to invite them.  Best case scenario hey realize you’re just following etiquette and decline. 

 

 

 

Post # 6
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58 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I haven’t seen or talked to many of my guests in 6 months, but it’s not a big deal. You probably haven’t seen them because you are sooo busy with wedding planning. Definetly invite them. Everyone has crazy schedules, but it’s no reason to “unfriend” someone. 

Post # 8
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9609 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2018

Sorry you didn’t get the answer you wanted, but yes if you send a Save The Date, you need to invite them.

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