(Closed) Do Men HEAR Anything We Say?

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

Uhhh yes. I swear to god some days it’s like I’m the Charlie Brown teacher. DH will acknowledge what I’ve said and then 10 minutes later ask me again. Repeat 3 times until I lose my mind.

Post # 4
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

The worst is when he will acknowledge like he has paid attention, but really he only listened to the first half of what I had to say.

Post # 6
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Helper bee

Oh I deal with this daily! It drives me nuts…Maybe we should all talk in super low voices like men do and maybe then they’d listen better? Hehehe Tongue out

Post # 7
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2011 - The Royal Park Hotel

@bakerella: Bahaha! Yes! I can’t tell you how many times I’ve sighed and said “I told you that already, dear.”

Usually if Mr. T is doing anything else at the time, I can count on him taking in about half of what I say. Sometimes less. 😛 If it’s really important I have to bide my time and wait for the right moment to say something.

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

This bothers me SO much. I made a rule though: I only say things once, if you can’t be bothered to listen, TOO BAD!!! 

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Soooo my FI is not the only one who does this. I will tel lhim something, he will acknowledge it and then completely forget it. The worst is when I tell him something and then he calls me a week later totally suprised about what I just told him a week ago. ugh!

Post # 10
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

I’ve actually never felt this way about my husband. But, every other guy I dated was that way. It actually took me a while to get the hang of not having to repeat myself/triple check that he remembered when we first got together. He’s so on the ball that it kind of freaked me out.

Post # 13
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

The one I really love is when you come up with an idea, that they shoot down. Then a few day, weeks, months later they come up with the same idea and think it’s there own. Argh!

I knew I had to marry my DH because he’ll get ‘his’ idea about halfway out, when he catches my eye, realize that it was my idea and quickly give me credit if for it. Past boyfriends would defend to the death that the idea was totally theirs and that I was crazy for even thinking I had come up with it!

Post # 14
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

Sometimes, especially if I say something during a sporting event, I make him repeat it back to me.

Post # 15
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

@basketballwifetobe: haha nope! just a sister. Hopefully if we have a son he’ll be like his dad….**oh please oh please oh please**

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