Do tell! What was the first time with your SO like?

posted 2 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: How was the "first time sex" with your SO?
    It was bad, actually. : (94 votes)
    11 %
    It was ok, a little awkward. : (245 votes)
    30 %
    It was good. : (115 votes)
    14 %
    It was really great. : (188 votes)
    23 %
    It was the best sex I've ever had. : (81 votes)
    10 %
    This sounds bad, but I don't remember! : (62 votes)
    8 %
    We haven't had sex yet. : (39 votes)
    5 %
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    463 posts
    Helper bee

    The first time with SO was after a party at a friend’s house…we had been dating about a month at that point and had been having some SERIOUS makeout sessions. At first, he couldn’t find his condoms so he left the apartment (with me half-naked on the couch!) to run to the store and get some. Then, about thirty seconds later he busted back in the door screaming “I REMEMBER WHERE THEY ARE NOW!”

    The actual sex was alright, nothing mind-blowing. I found out later that he had only “done it” one other time with one other girl so that explained his nervousness and slight awkwardness. Over time, though, lemme tell ya. The man has become a machine and he is GOOOOD! hehehe

    1607 posts
    Bumble bee

    Uhm. I had never had sex before, and the first time we tried, I actually pushed him off me after like 20 seconds haha. The second time it still hurt BAD (although he was gentle and going slow) but I felt really loved so idk? None of the poll answers fit my experience lol.

    2224 posts
    Buzzing bee

    It lasted about 1 minute tops. He hadn’t had sex in so long that he came wayy to quickly. 2 years later, I have him trained pretty well and things have gotten  A TON better in that department :)

    2092 posts
    Buzzing bee

    Hah, we both agree it was kinda awkward. Neither of us were virgins by a long shot, but it almost always is awkard with a new partner, so I wasn’t exactly expecting mountains to move. It didn’t take long to get awesome. :p

    2851 posts
    Sugar bee

    I voted it was bad.. but IT WAS HORRIBLE!! LOL he was very rough and it was quite painful! I had not had sex in a few months and he well… not going to go into it. Ya we always joke about it though, I cringe when I think about it haha.

    13170 posts
    Honey Beekeeper

    Our first time was on the futon in DH’s fraternity room after we’d been dating somewhere between 2 and 3 months.  It was my first time so I was a little nervous and had had a couple of drinks to calm my nerves (I wasn’t drunk, just barely buzzed and a bit more relaxed).  DH tried to turn me down at first because he thought I’d had more to drink than what I had and he didn’t want my first time to be while I was intoxicated.

    It was a little awkward at first simply because I had no idea what I was doing and DH wasn’t very experienced either (he’d had sex maybe 3 or 4 times before me).  But once we got going, it was actually very enjoyable sex.  We’ve since improved and it is even better now but I wasn’t one of those people who’s first time was just bad.

    867 posts
    Busy bee

    I cannot say I remember the first time with my SO…whoops, as it was intended as a one night stand due to too many drinks ingested.  However, the next morning, again whoops, I remember it being good enough for another ‘go’, and BOY I was right :)  

    It just kept getting better and better from there, as the one night stand turned into a full on relationship pretty quickly.  To date, he is MY BEST!

    3009 posts
    Sugar bee

    It was a little awkward. Nothing terrible. I deifnitely had to take the lead, though, because I grabbed SO’s v-card. He wasn’t completely clueless or anything but I definitely had to tell him some things.

    Thankfully things have gotten WAAAAY better.

    3322 posts
    Sugar bee

    @MissGreenBean:  ahahahhhaha “I REMEMBER WHERE THEY ARE NOW!”

    my first time was okay. hurt a lot and I was bleeding. second time wasn’t much better, but the third time onwards was good :)

    1696 posts
    Bumble bee

    Haha. I love that you asked this. My first time ever was with my FI. TECHNICALLY it was our first date (as I like to joke) as we had been best friends and REALLY close for over 2 years, but the first time we saw each other (it was a LDR for a while) after deciding to date, we didn’t waste any time!

    I’m pretty happy with my first time. It was on a king sized bed in Atlantic City with a view of the ocean. He DID have to tell me to thrust back though. O_0 I got better thankfully.

    2788 posts
    Sugar bee

    our first time together was good, it wasn’t mind blowing or anything, but it wasn’t awkward at all and we both were satisfied.

    9367 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper

    It was my first time ever, and our first time together, and it occurred several days after our wedding, while we were on our honeymoon in the Caribbean. We had the most amazing honeymoon suite. There definitely was some awkwardness, but it was very special for both of us, since it was the moment that we consummated our marriage covenant.

    ETA:  I should also add that I had waited a very, very long time for that moment (I was 47 when I finally married), so I would say that it was a major, major event in my life. :)

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