(Closed) Do they really want to be bridesmaids?

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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879 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Your wedding is still far away so maybe that’s why they’re not talking about the wedding yet. I would call them up and tell them you’ve been thinking about them and wanted to know what’s currently going on in their lives. Try to avoid only talking wedding. They wouldn’t have said yes if they didn’t really want to be in your bridal party! I made a facebook group for my bridesmaids since a couple of them live out of state and it’s been really helpful to share ideas, let everyone get to know each other, and keep everyone updated.

Post # 5
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620 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

@MrsMonkey:  Im in pretty much the same boat as you! I think the best thing to do is make more of an effort to keep in touch – phone call (!), FB message etc., text and take it from there. If things feel awkward or weird then you can re-think things?  It might re-kindle an old flame and remind you on why you chose them!  And, you asked them and they said yes – they could’ve said no.

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