(Closed) Do u think it would be okay if I posted this on FB??? RSVP related.

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: Would it be okay to use phrase #1?
    Use phrase #1 : (1 votes)
    14 %
    Add phrase 2 : (1 votes)
    14 %
    Add phrase 3 : (1 votes)
    14 %
    Just use phrase 1 : (3 votes)
    43 %
    Write something but use these words(explain below what you would say) : (1 votes)
    14 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    2233 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    When is your RSVP date and when do you have to give your caterer the final numbers?

    Personally I wouldn’t do any of them. Most people RSVP the last week or day if they hadn’t yet.  

    Post # 4
    Member
    7609 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper

    Gah, I wouldn’t use it at all unless everyone who can see it has been invited.  And even then….I probably wouldn’t use fb as my means of communication.  I’m sorry!  I just think it’s icky when people do that.

    Post # 5
    Hostess
    3371 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    I actually would leave it off of Facebook…what about the people who aren’t invited? It’s just going to be kind rubbing it in their face, you know? Maybe just email them or message them on Facebook. If all else fails, call them. 

    Post # 6
    Member
    2009 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    There’s no poll option for a plain old “no”

    Post # 7
    Member
    6745 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2014

    It’s “you’re” not “your” – and I don’t think it’s a good idea.  What about people you didn’t invite???

    Post # 8
    Member
    1186 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    f) NONE OF THE ABOVE.

    Wait until the deadline and then send individual messages to those who haven’t responded.

    If you wanted to know now, then your RSVP deadline should have been yesterday.  It wasn’t, so you have to wait.

    Post # 10
    Member
    3472 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2012 - The Gables Inn, Santa Rosa, CA

    Be patient and wait– it’s not worth the potential headache if someone who isn’t invited reads it and is offended.  Trust me, just wait. The few extra days wont make a difference. 

    Post # 11
    Member
    376 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    I vote no. You will make people who weren’t invited feel bad. Send an email reminder and put everyone as bcc if you want to do a non-phone reminder

     

    Post # 12
    Member
    2233 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    You have 22 days until your RSVP deadline (I should know, my wedding is the next day). Just be patient and wait. People will RSVP at the last minute. Trust me on this. It took me a total of 15 minutes to get all RSVPs the day after our deadline. If you really do have lots of people who have not responded then get your FI and your families to help you call everyone. 

    Post # 14
    Member
    1186 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    @Earlybride:  I appreciate your grace.  You’re getting so close!  Good luck.

    Post # 16
    Member
    2233 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    @Earlybride:  Trust me, I really wanted to contact people before the deadline but just kept reminding myself that I was being annoying. ahaha! I’m usually incredibly impatient so it was torture waiting on people. 

    Just to assure you, the week before the due date I had 80 confirmed, and by the due date I had 100 (of 115) confirmed! 

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