(Closed) Do we pay for our officiant’s hotel stay?

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

I think it’s customary. I know FSIL did that, and FI and I will cover the hotel and some of the gas as well instead of a flat out “donation”.

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Ettiqute would dictate yes! But I’d really just be honest and ask the officiant what they would prefer. Who knows, they may just want to sleep in their own bed, or they may prefer to stay in town and enjoy it.

We’re flying both our officiant and his wife down from Seattle to Sedona and paying for a hotel for 3 nights. He’s a family friend of the Groom and he’s married both of my FI’s sisters. So it means alot to us that he’s happy and really enjoys the end of the Family Trilogy

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