(Closed) Do we really have to mail back this RSVP?

posted 5 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Is the invite addressed to the dude in the basement or to the fiancee living elsewhere? If addressed to be returned to a different address, you absolutely did the right thing. It’s exciting to get those RSVPs in the mail…it will undoubtedly be appreciated no matter what! 🙂

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I think you did the right thing.

Post # 5
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

@smiles4jo:  I think you’re right. Like many brides-to-be I’m sure she is looking forward to getting those RSVPs in the mail!

Post # 7
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

I agree that you did the right thing.  =)

Post # 8
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

YOU DID WELL!  Hahahahaha.  My fiance’s best friend kept saying he would give it to my fiance… yeah, that never happened.  I had to track down their entire family’s meal choices via email, and it was a pain!  

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Nope. It’s best you sent it to her.

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

You did the right thing!

My FI ‘missplaced’ one he was given from a friend for a few days…he eventually found it in the truck…lol

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

@smiles4jo:  Id mail it back just because thats what is usually done 🙂

Post # 12
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2015

You did the right thing. I have one person who refuses to mail theirs in, and will only hand deliever it, even if it puts it past the deadline. It’s SUPER irritating.

Post # 13
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

It’s best you sent it to her. I had people hand ME the invites, and I still walked straight to the mail box and popped it in because a) It’s easier for me to keep track of them in the mail and I wont misplace it and b) I like getting mail and c) I alraedy paid for the stamps, I might as well use them.

Post # 14
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Definitely mail.  She paid for the stamp and envelope so she expects it to be mailed.

Post # 15
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Bumble Beekeeper

Probably would have worked out either way, but I’m sure she’ll enjoy getting it in the mail!

Post # 16
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

If it was addresssed to the female living elsewhere, then you did the right thing.

If it was addressed to the basement apartment guy, I wouldn’t care either way.

 

We live in very close proximity to a few of FI’s friends, and some have just handed him the RSVP. He usually brings the mail in, too so it’s no different than if they sent in in.

 

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