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Do you know where your SO is most of the time? Generally speaking, not every minute of every day. If someone asks you, "Where's X?" at any given time, could you answer?
Yep. Always. Then again we are a 1 car family, we are both full time students, and we have 3 of our 4 classes together. Not sure how I'd answer this in a couple years when we've finished school and such.
I know where my husband is, basically because the two of us are either at work, school, or home at all times.
We text a ton, just about how each other's day is going, and so on, so we pretty much always know where each other is at.
Yes, he doesn't ever go anywhere without telling me. I even know where he goes for lunch when working b/c he checks in on foursquare.
I generally always know... I mean he's not a man of mystery nor does he have a lot of places he could be, generally speaking. He's either at work or on his way to/from.. maybe at his parents or out for a drink with his friends. Living together just lets you know this stuff... I hardly call it "keeping tabs"
We always know where each other is. I have this fear of what if something happens and we don't know where the other person is. It just gives us peace of mind. We are pretty boring people though, so it is not hard to know where the other person is. Like snake stated, we live together, so it is very easy to know where the other person is. It is not keeping tabs on the other one. It is just considerate to let the other person know where you are.
Eh, we message each other a lot, always talk about how our days are going. So we usually know where the other person is. I'm usually at school, and he is most often at work :)
We are pretty boring and usually either at work or home. When we do go out, we are usually together or if not, we have a pretty good idea of where the other person is.
Mostly. Of course, we also share a car (thank goodness for public transportation) so there's the juggling of that, and usually if one of us is stopping at the store we ask if the other needs anything, etc. A lot of times it's pretty general though - going to school could mean a class, a study group, working in the lab, etc.
Yes I always know where he is. We are a one car family and we work together. Even when he goes out with his friends, he has always given me the respect of knowing where they will be.
We know each other's general work and activity (trivia night, sketch night, gym) schedules. I let him know when I'm going somewhere out of the ordinary for "just in case" reasons. That's about it though.
We usually know where each other is. We don't keep tabs on each other or anything like that, but we do let the other person know where we're going.
I have a general idea most of the time, but mine's a pilot, so sometimes it's..where are you again? We keep in touch throughout the day though.
I answered "yes, but sometimes I'm not sure" however I should have answered "other"...
for the most part, YES I know - however...he's a caterer and so is CONSTANTLY out and about on deliveries. we text each other every morning around 10:30 or so just to say hi, and sometimes he'll tell me where he's at doing his deliveries...but yeah. I would say "he's at work" if asked - but no idea where he physically is at. :D
same with on the weekends when he's working a party.
Most of the time--we're full time students, share an aparment/car, and work for the same place, so sometimes I'm not sure what class he's in.
We do a pretty good job of keeping in touch throughout the day - thank god for texting! I mean, we are either at work, or home, or I'm at yoga or out for a run. We're pretty boring. :-)
I answered, "Yes, but sometimes I'm not sure". I mean I know when he's at work and if he has plans with his guy friends he lets me know. We also live together so it's difficult not to know. However, we often do our own thing and we both have cells so we can easily find out what each other is doing. He was able to purchase my engagement ring without me knowing at all. :)
We are a 1 car fam also. It's just Mr.TKE and I. I work 2 jobs and Mr.TKE works from home. Where he is, I am also :)
Yup, most of the time. Which is hard since we are in diff. countries! He's good about letting me know where he's gonna be and stuff, and when he gets home he emails me before he goes to bed usually. It's not like a trust thing, but I generally get nervous when I don't hear from him, and/or my parents (who also live in a diff. country.) I start thinking FI got hit by a car or my dad had another heart attack or something. So a little email goes a long way!!
Yea, I know almost always know where he is, because we text and talk a lot through out the day, so that stuff comes up. I don't call it keeping tabs either-- we live together so it makes sense that I know where he is/ what he's up to. At least, I have a general idea-- I may not know the exact location.
We live together and are homebodies (don't go out a ton), so the answer to the question is "Yes, almost all the time," with the exception of him running errands and whatnot when I'm at class.
Usually I at least have a general idea of where he will be. I go to school and work during the day so I don't have a lot of time to text/talk to him. In the morning I try to ask what his plans are for the day, although I know he spends every morning training for baseball.
After 6 and on the weekends we are usually with each other as we live together.
We are both really good at letting the other know. We only have 1 phone so we juggle who has it, usually whoever is with the kids. So not to worry the other we tend to have a game plan lined up before we leave so the other knows.
I voted no but not for the keeping tabs reason. FI works on call for the railroad and we don't live together so if I miss his call in the middle of the night to tell me where he's going then I sometimes won't know where's he's at in the state for 2 or 3 days. He has to have his phone off at work too so he has no clue where I'm at either. We try our best to have a general idea and I try to always take his call regardless of the time just so I can know. I tend to worry otherwise. If he's off...he ususally tells me what he's doing although sometimes it's after the fact like oh yeah, I stopped by such and such and did whatever.
Yep, pretty much, but not because we're keeping tabs on each other.
We live together, go to school together, work together, and carpool. It's rather ridiculous, but it results in knowing exactly where he is almost all the time. But occasionally, our schedules part ways, and then I just vaguely know "He's at work" or "He's running errands."
This is actually one of the reasons I felt really comfortable marrying this man. We'd been keeping this schedule for 3 years prior to getting engaged, and I wasn't sick of him yet! 
Yep, he goes to work and he comes home, haha.
Since I'm new to town (moved here to be with him), most of our social time is still spent together. Hopefully I'll become less dependent on him when I find a job and start meeting people!
We usually know where each other is, but its not uncommon if we don't. We both have odd schedules lately. But since we live together and we text frequently through out the day because we love talking to each other, we by default usually have vague ideas of where the other is.
Since we have different days off, its common for me to take off and do something on my own. If I'm out for a while, I'll text what I'm doing because I like my SO knowing where I am in case of an emergency. But if its just a couple hours, its no big deal at all.
Sometimes I like doing things on my own (like hanging out in a book store/coffee shop/park for an hour or two) and not saying anything to my SO about it. It's my own private world :) Some days, I just have to do something small that is "mine", ya know?
DF is a professional athlete who is often on the road, so no ... I don't always know where he is. I mean, yeah, I know if he's in Boston playing against the Blazers but I don't have any idea if he's at the hotel, if he's in a training session or what. He doesn't have time to call me and say "I'm at the arena" or "I'm going to a training session."
When he's back home, I pretty much know where he is.
In general I know where he is. But since I work night shifts and sleep during the day, if he goes to school/work and goes to a store or to get lunch/dinner afterwards I don't really know. But in general we know each other's schedules. Also if he goes with his brother for the day I don't bother asking. His brother's wife asked me what they were doing when I had to ask him a question and when I said I don't know everyone just looked at me.
Yes, but not in a "keeping tabs on him" way. We're usually together, or at work, or home. If I go out with friends or stop at the mall after work, I let him know and he lets me know if he's out somewhere, too.
i chose "other" because it's more of mix between "no, we don't keep tabs" and "Yes, but sometimes i'm not sure." we're long distance so i don't always know where goes during the day and to be honest, it's not something that i really think about. i know the rough outline of his day during the work week but after work he sometimes has meetings or hangs out with friends. same goes for weekends. if there's something big it naturally comes up in conversation beforehand but other stuff generally comes up after the fact when we talk to each other before bed.
For the most part, but I must admit I will "go off the reservation" more than he does. Sometimes, I just need to go out on my own. I went out for a couple of hours to a local nursey today. Just needed some alone time. He didn't know where I was, but I told him when I got back.
If he goes out with friends, it's enough for me to know he's out with them. I don't need to know exactly where he is. If we need to get ahold of each other, there's always the cell phone. I trust him, he trusts me.
I always know where R is, but that's because he is either at work or at home or out with me! He's such a homebody!
I feel really "odd one out" amongst my group of friends - when we go out on girls' nights, I'll very rarely text my SO to check where he is. They'll ask "What's Mr. Scribs doing tonight?" and the answer is generally "not sure". It's not that I don't care and we both have cell phones so we can text each other and check if necessary. In saying that, we generally have a discussion at the start of the weekend about what our separate and shared plans are but "hanging with the boys" is enough detail for me
@scribbles..I'm like you..I usually shrug my shoulders when someone asks where my BF is. If he wants to tell me, thats fine, if not, thats fine too.
I put down "other". Mainly due to the fact that he's home most of the time. Sometimes I can't keep his work schedule straight so I don't know what state he's in..it could be in MA, CT or NY. Sometimes I forget that he takes flights to Buffalo NY-mostly day trips. Or if he goes out with friends, he may not know the final destination of the night. He's an adult, he'll find his way back home....at some point.
If he's not at work he's most likely at home. Even though we're long-distance, we video chat pretty much every day so he usually tells me if he has softball practice or is going out with friends.
Always. If he goes out to eat while he's at work, I wouldn't know about that, and the same is true of him if I were to do the same, but other than that we always know.
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