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Do you guys always match your bras and undies together.. and does your FI or DH care if it doesnt?
I can count on two hands how many times in my life I've matched my bras and panties togehter. I mean, I guess any panties go with a plain nude or black bra technically. haha those are the ones I wore most often.
I don't think guys notice these things.
Never...I'm very drawn to printed and colorful bras and panties...and they NEVER match... like B&W leopard print bra with cupcake panties unmatched...
and i don't think FI cares..cuz if he was seeing me in bras and panties...i don't think he's thinking whether they match or not... :P
I wonder if mine have ever matched... maybe they did when I was clubbing a lot? I just grab whatevers clean... comfy to most annoying underwear until they are all dirty then laundry and repeat. lol
Oh and I don't think my FI ever see's me in my underwear... I get dressed in the bathroom. LOL
hahaha Righhhttt.. i was watching tyra once and Steve harvey and soem other girl were in it and she was basically giving the pointers on how to be well dressed and what not, So thats why I was curious if that even mattered in the first place
I can say that the ONLY time I've EVER matched my panties and bra are when I've purposefully done it as part of a "costume" for role playing with DH... 
Otherwise I'm a nude bra and VS pink panties girl.
Hahaaha I have a tendancy to get dressed in the bathroom a lot too only cuz its right after the shower
@HappilyEverAfter54: LOL I do that with my undies too!! As I put away my laundry, I put the most comfy on top and least comfy on the bottom and wear them in that order hahahaha
I seem to be in the minority here, but I do wear matching lingerie. I love the look and feel of nice lingerie and I deserve it.
Never really matched purposefully. In a dream world if i owned a zilion bras and panties ...maybe.
I did however love day of the week undies growing up. I always tried to match the day with the right day
I've always wanted to be the girl who had matching sets of lingerie but I'm afraid I'm with
@amnystik: nude bra and VS panties all the way- never matching.
No its too much effort plus mix and match is cute :)
I have lots of fancy bras and lots of fancy undies, and mostly they dont match.
@al1988: I don't know why but it's much easier... I think it comes from having a cold house in the winter... I like to get dressed in the warm bathroom.
@CrispyRN: Yep, that's why were all so cranky on laundry day... the lame underwear always fall on that day lol
I think I've done it once, I usually just open my drawer and whatever comes out I wear, lol, I'm comfy in all my bras and undies.
Probably never. And no, my husband and I do not have enough time in our lives to stress over someone's underwear not matching.
I pretty much never do this! Maybe once a year!
And no, FI doesn't care. I'm really lucky with the things FI doesn't care about - leg stubble, granny panties that time of the month etc. It saves me a lot of work sometimes :)
Nope, never. Theoretically I could but that's nude to nude. The only time I break out the nude undies is for band and that goes with black or white industrial strength sports bras. Super sexy, right?
(so no, DH doesn't care)
No , and if I do it is just because I own a lot of black panties and bras - textured/patterned sets - never, and FI could care less / has never mentioned it when I do or dont.
Nope... I wish I had at least a few matching sets though, lol. But I mostly just put on the most comfortable clean ones..
I have a few matching sets, but for the most part, I wear a nude bra (or on occasion, black). I like cute, colorful panties, so they almost never match. My husband doesn't care. I think it bothers me more than it bothers him, but it doesn't bother me enough to buy boring panties. 
No. My bras are usually black although I need a new white one. & My panties are colors of every kind. lol
Opps, forgot to add. No, it doesn't bother my husband. But he does enjoy when I do wear a matching set. :P
no, almost never :) I never do on purpose if I do. And no, DH does not care or notice.
hahahhaha, I never knew people did that until I saw it on here some months ago. I wondered what the ladies helping me with dress fittings thought of my non-matching undies. I just don't have time for that. I buy what is cute and on sale - I never look for the matching stuff!
I don't know how to say this without making him sound gay...
My DH's number one concern is that my bra and panties match. Whenever I ask what type of lingerie he prefers he always says "I don't care as long as it is a set".
Since then, I usually try to match pretty closely. Although some days, I.just.dont.care.
hahah but I Can see why sets are sexy though, basically if ur wearing a black bra wth hot pink undies, its cute and comfy but if its black bra with black panties it turns immediatly to sexy...
Never! LOL. Very occasionally I'll accidentally match them, and DH always notices. Haha!
Every once in a while I will dress up a little more than usual, but for the most part, no. Although most of my bras are tan VS ones, so technically they match all my undies!
@al1988: after 8 years together I have come around to his way of thinking. Other than certain times of the month, I try to match for him!
I have never matched my panties and bras. It's just not something that matters to me or to my FI
Does it count if you have black Hanes cotton underwear and a satin black bra??? If not, then the answer is never! :)
If anything I match my bra and panties to what I'm wearing. I mean if I'm wearing a black top and white pants I wouldn't wear a black bra and matching black panties, I'd wear nude or white ones.
My fiance really doesn't care, he cares more about what's inside the bra and panties!!! I'm sure your's does too!!!! ;)
FI does not care...But i used to care almost to an OCD point. Then I became a stressed out grad student and suddenly it seems less important although I do still make sure it's matching if I am lucid while getting dressed lol.
On a regular daily basis? No. Don't have the time or energy to care. :)
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