Do you and SO have similar political beliefs?

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
  • poll: Do you and SO have similar political beliefs?
    Yes, totally! : (83 votes)
    44 %
    Mostly... : (78 votes)
    41 %
    No and it's a problem for our relationship : (2 votes)
    1 %
    No and it's not a problem for our relationship : (21 votes)
    11 %
    Other (please explain below!) : (6 votes)
    3 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    2162 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    FI doesn’t really care about politics, which annoys me a little but all in all it doesn’t have much of an effect on our relationship.

    Post # 4
    Member
    9949 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2013

    Well.  We agree on the things I think are MORALLY the most important — gay rights and women’s rights.  Other than that…hoo boy.  He claims he’s a Libertarian, while I fall more in line with the Green Party.  So we also share our disdain for the common political parties!

    Post # 6
    Member
    1772 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: December 2011

    I voted “Yes, totally!” but there are some issues that we just don’t agree on. Overall though, our views are pretty similar. I think it would be a huge problem, maybe even a deal breaker, if our views were vastly different. My political views have a lot to do with my fundamental values as a person and I feel strongly about them, and I don’t think that I could be with someone who had drastically different morals.

    Post # 7
    Member
    1590 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: March 2014

    We’re opposite, but we’re both open to conversation. I like that he’s into politics.

    Post # 8
    Member
    2687 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2015 - Ketchum, ID

    @Skittles131:  we mostly do. I couldn’t be in a relationship with someone who had different politic beliefs than me. I just know it wouldn’t work for me. 

    Post # 9
    Member
    2687 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2015 - Ketchum, ID

    @Miss Fish:  +1 you said everything I wanted to say, but was too tired to say lol. Damn traveling and flying! 

    Post # 10
    Member
    918 posts
    Busy bee

    No in that I think people should vote, and he thinks voting is completely pointless and refuses to do it.  So whenever elections come around we have a couple of mildly frustrating disagreements, but for the most part it’s not a problem at all.  It doesn’t affect our day to day lives (so I voted that it’s not a problem).

    Post # 11
    Member
    180 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: April 2014

    Honestly, we don’t really talk about politics much. We sometimes disagree on one specific instance, or he only sees things from one point of view, while I can see both sides. If I explain things to him, he usually comes around and can look at things constructively.

    I have no real interest in politics, and he doesn’t that much, either, so it helps a lot.

    Post # 12
    Member
    3280 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    We have the same moral/religious beliefs and therefore tend to have the same views against issues like gay marriage and abortion, but it’s less about politics and more about our religion. 

    Post # 13
    Hostess
    15072 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    He didn’t used to think we did but we do. It just took me a while to show him issue by issue he was wrong, which he fully admits now. He used to hate politics and now he loves researching stuff on his own and navigates the federal websites as well as I do. I’ve created a monster, lol. 

    Post # 14
    Member
    871 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: March 2014

    @Skittles131:  Yep. We don’t like the traditional American party labels of republican and democrat because while fiscally we both are very conservative, socially we are both very liberal so we tend to vote for the better overall person not just what someones party name is and I think it would be hard for me to be with a really left wing or really right wing person since I have strong beliefs that fall on both sides if that makes sense haha It works well for us anyway! 

    Post # 15
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    8907 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2013 - Rocky Mountains USA

    Yes, we’re both quite politically engaged and if we didn’t have similar views, I’m not sure it would work.  For both of us, our values are really wrapped up in our political / moral world view.  And I don’t think I could be with a partner who didn’t share my values.

    Post # 16
    Member
    5543 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: December 2011

    He and his family are considerably more conservative than my direct family is, but we are both right of the aisle, I kind of party in the middle somewhere on all but a few issues where I am conservative and DH is pretty firmly righ wing to apathetic on most things. I personally am just as afraid of the extreme right as I am of the extreme left. Luckily for Dh and i it doesnt make many issues between the two of us, but it does cause some friction with extended family because I have some pretty far left family whom I love dearly and FilL is pretty extreme right and I have had to, genetly, explain “libtard” and other things of that nature are not productive towards reaching common goals and not appropriate conversations for holiday gatherings. 

     

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