Do you and your SO sext!

posted 3 years ago in Beauty
  • poll: Do you and your SO sext?
    What is sexing? : (2 votes)
    2 %
    Hell NO! : (23 votes)
    24 %
    No, but I would consider it : (17 votes)
    18 %
    Yes, words only : (11 votes)
    12 %
    Yes, pictures only : (10 votes)
    11 %
    Yes, words and pictures : (31 votes)
    33 %
  • Post # 4
    Member
    1286 posts
    Bumble bee

    @KatB442:  FI and I exchange pictures all the time. He has a collection of them on his phone from over the past several years.  Like you, I’d rather him look at me, watch our videos instead of porn. He’d rather do that also.  I don’t do it every day, neither does he. It’s just a casual, out of the blue thing. I’ll take my phone to the bathroom, snap a picture, and send it.  He loves it. Sometimes we’ll do it when we are at home with each other.  It keeps our relationship exciting and new. 

    It’s just for “us”.  We enjoy it.  Like you, I’m 39. I’ve had 2 kids. I lost a ton of weight and had a breast reduction. My xDH was a prude. My FI loves me, he’s sexual, and he always compliments me. I’ve never had that before.  I enjoy the reaction I get from him and it boosts my confidence, something I never had before.  And that is one of the many reasons why I love him.

     

    Post # 5
    Member
    8478 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2013

    @KatB442:  Nope, we’re too old an unhip for stuff like that.  I think you have to be born after 1985 to sext lol.

    Post # 6
    Member
    371 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    @KatB442:  we do! We’re married and live together so not as often as someone in an LDR probably does, but if I’m in the mood and want him to be when he gets home, I’ll definitely send him a sexy message or pic while he’s at work to get him going. 

    Post # 8
    Member
    855 posts
    Busy bee

    We do on occasion (maybe once every ten days or so)

    Post # 11
    Member
    8478 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2013

    @KatB442:  ah well, you’re definitely cooler/hipper than us lol 🙂

    Post # 13
    Member
    371 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    Double post

    Post # 14
    Member
    1429 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2010 - parent's backyard

    no, becuase if that phone or computer gets in the wrong hands and/or is hacked, I don’t want those pictures out there. 

    I’m not morally against it, I just get worried. not that anybody would relish seeing photos of us naked, LOL!

    Post # 15
    Member
    5220 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: February 2013

    I’ve sent him topless pictures once or twice but that’s the extent of it. He’s so paranoid about other people seeing them.

    Post # 16
    Member
    8932 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2012

    Yup. It’s the only thing that gets us through some deployments.

    ETA: We use both pictures and text.

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