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    mrsbee    March 5, 2005   New York, NY

    I brought Smokey and Sparky the cat with me to New York, and made Mr. Bee a cat person.  Well he isn't so much a cat person as he is a Sparky person (because she's too sweet!).

    One day we'd love to get a dog together... we'd just have a hard time deciding what kind of dog!  But one thing I know for sure -- I'd love to name it Tabasco.  

    Do you and your SO have a pet together, or plan to get one together?

     
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    ChaiAnkh99    August 12, 2011   Boston

    We want a dog so much. We talk about it all the time, and every time I see a cute dog I find out what breed it is and think that's the breed we should get. But we're probably not going to get one for a while -- a dog is a big financial commitment and probably deserves more space than we're going to have for a while (and it's much harder to find dog-friendly apartments...).

     
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    saramari    08.08.09   Midwest

    Yes please! We're big time dog lovers. We'll probably wait a while since the're such a big responsibility, but I just can't imagine us without a dog!

     
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    LOL, we put the cart before the horse on this one!  We moved in together and after only a year, he let me adopt a cat (Cali).  Then I thought she was lonely.  So he let me adopt another cat (Uli).  Did I mention he's allergic to cats?  Neither did he.  But that's how much he loves me.  He calls them decorations because unless I'm home, they just stay on their condo all day.

    Well, he's always wanted a German Shepherd Dog (GSD).  One day I got a call while I was gone that his coworker's dog had just had puppies and could he please get one.  I couldn't help but say yes, afterall he's put up with Cali and Uli.  (He later said he thought I'd talk him out of it...ha!  Like I can say no to a puppy!!)  So Ryder joined the family.

    Now I'm looking for our next dog, we've both agreed will be a Doberman Pinscher named Kaiser.  Dobbies are harder to find to adopt, but we're still looking.  About a year after we get Kaiser, we're going to adopt our (final!!!) dog, Heidi (Rottie).

    We're huge animal lovers, so of course we need animals!  But I used to work in an animal shelter, so I have to plug it: please consider adoption!!!!  The best dog I've ever known was my Rottie that I adopted from a shelter.  Give the big dogs a chance, and consider the Rotties, Dobbies, and black labradors.  BIG BLACK DOGS ARE THE LEAST LIKELY TO BE ADOPTED AND MOST LIKELY TO BE EUTHANIZED.  Ok, end plug.

    No matter what pet you're looking for, I highly recommend www.petfinder.com which allows you to find a pet to adopt by location, breed, gender, and age.  They have just about every animal you could want!!

     
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    kitty25kat25    March 21, 2009   Amelia Island, FL

    We adopted a kitten together, which worked out perfectly, because my FI just happens to be a cat person, he may just be the only guy who is!!

    I also have to plug adoption, and to try to make sure you go through a no-kill shelter!

     
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    rebecca    September 13, 2008  

    I adopted Gordon when we were long-distance, so he didn't really have a say. We just adopted Janie 2 weeks ago "together," but she's very much turning into a daddy's girl. =)

    Another plug for rescuing and Petfinder!! =) 

     
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    quirkyparsnip    October 1, 2011   Texas

    The boy has always wanted a dog and his family were never pet people. I expect there is one in our future. I've always had a poodle and I like dogs, but I don't love them. I am allergic and don't care much for cats. I plan on getting a chipoo or maltipoo or some other kind of poo when we are able.

     
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    ChaiAnkh99    August 12, 2011   Boston

    @ MightySapphire: Ooh, I didn't know that about big, black dogs! That's so sad. Good thing I'm leaning heavily toward  adopting a black lab. :-)

     
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    rasgoola    7/18/09   Boston

    We are planning on getting one or two cats and definitely a dog when we have more space and time to be home with our pets. We are big animal lovers and we even have names picked out for our future cats

     
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    RIbride    May, 2009  

    I totally agree with the others...please consider adoption, but if you find that adoption is not the right fit, whatever you do DO NOT buy your puppy at a store.  Buy from a reputable breeder.  ALL puppies sold in puppy stores (no matter what they tell you in the stores) come from puppy mills, one of the cruelest industries in existence.  Sorry to preach, but this is a topic close to my heart.  We adopted our pup last year, he's exactly what we wanted and couldn't ask for a better addition to our family!   

     
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    ggsb    June 13, 2009   Atlanta/North Georgia

    My FI likes to say that my bischonpoo and I were a package deal, and to get the girl he got stuck with the dog.  He talked all macho to his friends about my silly prissy dog and how we needed a manly dog to balance the mix, but then shortly after we moved in together I noticed he had her photo as his cell phone screensaver.  3 years later he's declared that we are a small dog family... and the dog he "got stuck with" he now calls sweetie when he thinks no one is listening. ;)

    And we're another plug for rescuing and petfinder!

     
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    maryjane    September 9, 2009   Grand Forks, ND

    No. At least not for a while. For one thing, we rent (and in our city, renters are NOT pet owners unless you want to live in a 'slum' type of place), but even if we didn't, we wouldn't jump right in to having a pet.

    I had a cat when we got together, but my mom has her now due to stupid rental restrictions (and she's a million times happier (and fatter) with my mom. I would not be able to pry that cat out of my mom's arms, ever!).

    What I love about pets: cuteness, companionship, unconditional love.

    What  I don't like about pets: litterbox (for cats), shedding (most cats and dogs),  time commitment (we both work long hours and go to school). Walking them in the winter (dogs) - it's below zero for half of our winter..., boarding them when we travel (my family are all airplane-rides away) etc. 

    We both love cats and dogs, and I'd love to get another cat... but not until we have a house and are a little more settled (maybe out of school?). We also both feel that a child should have pets, so maybe dogs and cats are best saved until we have a family to share them with. 

     

     

     
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    Jeska June20    6/20/09   MD

    My FI and I bought a house over a year ago.  I knew I wanted a dog, I always had *at least* one growing up (My parents still have 4).  Plus the FI works evenings so I wanted a companion.  I found a little yorkie/chihuahua mix that I love to death.  I've always been a big dog person, but I couldn't imagine life without her.  She's not the yappy type and she is so sweet & smart. 

    Note: I've learned that dogs really are almost like having a baby.  They cost a lot more than I imagined and demand lots of attention!  If you find yourself away from home often then I wouldn't get a dog.  And yes, please look at petfinder.com or your local humane society first.

     
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    bluegreenjean    June 2009  

    I promised that if we moved for me to go to grad school, we could get a dog.  So, we've got our Norfolk Terrier.  They are, incidently, the cutest, most amusing dogs in the whole world ;)   And walking him is solid exercise.

     
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    Mrs. DG    July 18, 2009   Seattle/Tahoe

    We have a Bernese Mountain Dog named Catch. (Our flower dog) Mr. Doctor wasn't so hip to Berners at first, but he says now that he is a Berner person. (You can't not be, they are the sweetest big dogs!) I love rescue dogs, but it is also really important for me to have a predictible personality (which you get with Berners). If we ever live out in the country on acreage, we will be adopting a shelter dog.

    I'm sure everyone knows that if you do get a dog from a breeder, make sure it is the most reputable person you can find.  Often that means waiting for a long while to get a dog that's appropriate for your lifestyle. There was a huge puppy mill bust here in Western Washington last week, and we've signed up to become puppy foster parents to help with the massive influx of puppy mill dogs.

    Meanwhile, here's a picture of our beast when he was a baby.

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    IdahoSummer    7/04/09   Boise/Donnelly, Idaho

    We are both very much dog people, and we have two big, wonderful dogs!  I think that our pet adoption will stop at that though for now.  We got a puppy just two months after I moved in with my fiance.  The day we decided to get her was the day I made my lifelong commitment to him in my mind, because I didn't want to start our family and then break it up.  We'd been looking for about a month on petfinder and drove 15 hours each way to pick her up because she is the perfect dog for us (lab/vizsla mix).  Then we decided she needed a brother, and he is a crazy vizsla but is very loveable. 

    We spend an absurd amount of money on them, sometimes out of need (she has health problems that make her a very expensive dog sometimes), but mostly because they are spoiled.  They also impact how we spend our free time.  Now we go on walks at night instead of downtown for drinks or dinner.  But, I wouldn't change a thing. 

     
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    SpinningJenny    August 7, 2010   Omaha, NE

    I love dogs and so does Mr. Spin, but we've decided to wait until

    1. We're married (sharing responsibility for walks is very important to me, aka winter is cold ^_^)

    2. His job schedule is solidified. He'll be working as a PA and who knows what kind of hours he'll have at first. There's no way I can train a dog on my own (never done it before), so I'll need him around to help.

    and 3. We live in a house with a yard or in a very dog-friendly apt. I always feel bad for bigger dogs cooped up in little apartments (unless they're teeny tiny or not very active and don't need an excess of space) so we really want to make sure we live in an environment that will be the best possible for whatever type of dog we end up with.

    But I can't wait. All of my childhood doggies have died (the last just on Friday Do you and your SO want a pet together? :  wedding pets dogs Icon Sad) and I'm really missing having canine company. Pet time can't come soon enough.

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    wubz    October 18, 2008   Albuquerque, NM

    Yes! We want a dog someday. I ask everyday for one but we both know right now is not the time. We live in a small apartment and are both at work all day and it would not be fair to the dog. Although my MIL said if we decide to get one she would be doggy day care for us. Do you and your SO want a pet together? :  wedding pets dogs Icon Biggrin

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    mrsbee    March 5, 2005   New York, NY

    OMG I love Bernese Mountain Dogs doctorgirl!  I think they're so cute and sweet.  How are they as pets?  They seem so mellow!

     
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    budgetbeautiful    9/26/09   Fredericksburg, VA

    I have two cats that will become ours when we move in together. As soon as we move into our own house, we're getting a dog together. Either Dexter the Boston Terrier or Hank the Pug. :D

     
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    salex19    10-12-08   Washington, DC

    I really want a Shih Tzu and have convinced my non-animal loving DH that he wants one too.  Sadly, it is not to be.  We are trying to save money, for one, and we rent.  Secondly we like to travel as well as do things after work, and we see that our dog-owning friends are very limited in being able to do those things.

     Question for the board- those who are considering having kids in the next five years- what are your thoughts on having a dog around a baby? 

     
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    Mrs. DG    July 18, 2009   Seattle/Tahoe

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    They are the best!  They are so mellow inside the house, but when we go for walks or to the dog park, he'll be high energy.  They're *really* loving, and their whole goal in life is to be near your side (well that and to eat things off the counter ;)  They're also great with kids.  I have lots of nieces and nephews, so that was really important to me.  Despite their impressive size, they are incredibly gentle with little kids.

    They were bred to be Swiss Farm dogs, and they definitely live up to that reputation. Steady, dependable, loyal and they train up really easily.

    Catch is my second Bernese.  I could go on and on, but I won't.... If he's ever in NYC with me, I'll let you know!

     
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    Lillindy    September 2008   Bay Area, CA

    We both love dogs, but are still too traumatized after putting our dogs down.  As of now we have no plans for anymore pets anytime soon.

     
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    RIbride    May, 2009  

    We plan on trying for kids soon after getting married and we have a little dog who, as of now, thinks that he is our child.  We're also convinced he doesn't actually know he's a dog...but thats another topic.  We aren't concerned about having the pup around a baby.  It will be an adjustment for all of us, including him, and will require some extra attention and training, but he has been around babies before and with the exception of some curiosity, he is great. 

     
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    grumpybear722    January 13, 1992  

    We currently have 2 cats, but we've already had fish together! :D We'll eventually get a dog when we have the room.

     
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    We have two Shih Tzus together that we love so much. Mr. SR is such a mush when it comes to his little girls :)

     
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    gidgett    March 13, 2010   Nashville

    I'll definitely check out petfinder! :)

     

    I've actually never had a pet, unless you count the ant farm I accidentally massacred as a kindergartener (long story), but P has always had a cat and a dog. We're going to have to live in married student housing for the first year of our marriage (ick!) but we're going to sneak in a kitten...he's such a cat person. And once we have an apartment that allows pets or a house of our own, I'm going to get the dog I've always wanted...a shorthair Yorkshire terrier. Although I've been told that if I ever carry the dog around in my purse, my mother will take him away until I promise not to do it again...

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    deviledegg    May 24, 2009  

    I would love to get a dog once we are married, but I'm not sure if we will get one right away. 

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    MissGoodie    July 24, 2010   Coquitlam

    My FI bought me a puppy as a housewarming gift when I moved in with him, it was the best present i ever got!! She's a pomeranian-chihuahua cross, and only weighs 5.2lbs so she's relatively inexpensive to keep. And because she's so small she gets enough exersize running around the house, so if we miss a day taking her for a walk it's not the end of the world and she doesn't end up stir crazy like some of the big dogs my parents owned while I was growing up.

     

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    loveatfirstsightlover    May 30, 2009   Iowa

    Just three days after moving into an apartment together we got a dachshund puppy. We "met" him the weekend prior at a graduation party where one of the guests was trying to sell off her remaining puppies. Though we had said we'd wait for six months to get a puppy, we fell in love and never looked back. In a year, when we get a house, we're getting a collie, and after that, I get to have my long-haired chihuahua. :)

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    AmyM83    May 23, 2009   Southern California

    We got our dog, Ruby (Puggle - Pug and Beagle mix), while living in his apartment together about 9 months before we got engaged. It was definitely like a child test-drive, compromising and getting used to each other's parenting styles! We bought a house right after we got engaged in May and plan to get another dog this summer right after the wedding. I know I will need something to help with my post-wedding depression and I am a teacher, so a summer off is the best time to train a puppy! We hope to get a Chocolate Lab.

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    elle    August 19, 2008   Wailea, Maui

    We got our first dog, a chihuahua mix, 2 months after I moved cross country to be with him and one month after my childhood dog was put to sleep.  Once we moved into a bigger place, we adopted our second dog, collie/sheltie mix.  I want more, but Mr. Elle won't let me get another until we move into a house with a bigger yard because he wants a husky.

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    dannyb417    Summer 2010   PA

    For about a year, I kept asking for a puppy whenever a holiday came around. Last Valentine's Day, I told Mr. Dan not to get me anything if I wasn't getting a puppy! Instead, he surprised me with a proposal and an amazing ring!!

     A few months later, we added a puppy to our family! Shelby is  a German -Shorthaired Pointer and is convinced that he is our child.  He definitely doesn't know he is a dog either.

     

    Here he is the day we brought him home.

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    cannotwait    February 1, 2009   TX

    I had a dog when we met, then he adopted a dog before we got engaged.

     
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    OMG I'm loving all these pet pictures!! I grew up with labrador retrievers and my parents still have a black one and yellow one.  I can't wait until we have a house big enough one day for our own lab. (Technically I'd like the whole rainbow with chocolate, black and yellow...3 dogs)

     I really want to get puppy.  I don't like being in places alone, so I made FI promise that we could get a puppy before his first business trip.  Our wedding is September and his first trip is October, so it might be soon after the wedding.  Because we won't have room for a lab we are thinking about a miniature schnauzer.  Anyone know of good breeders in So Cal?

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    NixLapi    October 24, 2009   Toronto

    I'm loving the pet pics! :)

    I've told my FI in no uncertain terms "no pets until we have kids!" We're both animal lovers, but also like to take weekend (and longer) trips away, and I don't want to worry about who can take the pet. That said, we're moving in with his parents until we buy our pwn place in the summer and they have a cat & a dog... so we'll get some furball love in the meantime! (And I may just try to sneak the cat out with us when we move... I have no willpower! *lol*)

     
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    azwinelover    October 16, 2009   Chandler, AZ

    We both looooooove dogs, but both of us work long hours and it wouldn't be fair to get a dog and leave him home alone all day.  So, instead of getting a dog, we got rats.  Yes, that's right, rats.  They're sweet, they're smart, they're very clean, and they're nocturnal so they don't miss us when we're gone all day!  I don't have any pics of them here at work to post, but I used a picture of Fondue for my avatar.  I was taking pics of Nuffle and Fondue while they were out of their cage, and Fondue got real curious about my camera.  In this pic she was balancing on her hind legs on my leg.  I just thought it was too cute!

     
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    BetaBride    7.13.2009   HB

    We have a 5 pound Yorkie named Lilly. She is our daughter and we love her to death.

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    I had two cats before my FI and I even started dating!  The first time he stayed over, he left a tshirt in my room and they peed all over it!

     

    When we moved in together last year, I brought the cats with me.  He wasn't really sure he wanted pets, but now I swear they love him more than they love me sometimes :) Now I'm trying to talk him into gettig a dog.

     
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    Yes! We just got a kitty from the SPCA last week. We've been wanting one for a long time and now that we are engaged and settled in our apartment we decided to go for it, and we are loving her so much.

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