Do you ask people what they got for Christmas?

posted 3 years ago in Holidays
Post # 3
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1312 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014 - NH

I had a few texts along those lines that I didn’t reply to…I don’t like to compare to others that way too.

Post # 4
Hostess
11469 posts
Sugar Beekeeper

@LadyBlackheart:  Honestly, no I don’t. I also don’t really know of many people that ask what I got for Christmas either.

I am normally pretty accepting of all things FB and I’m a huge advocate for live and let post but I have to admit that posting your Christmas presents mere moments after recieving them does make me a little crazy.

Post # 5
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2114 posts
Buzzing bee

@LadyBlackheart:  I guess it depends on your relationship with the person. My brother called and we asked eachother right away what we got for xmas. But i dont run in and ask my coworkers what they got, you know?

 

Post # 6
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2162 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I don’t ask people except for maybe kids, and in that case I’m probably just asking not because I really care but just to let them brag about their things. I don’t ask other adults what they got and I don’t usually answer people who question what I got.

Post # 7
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4540 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2014 - Royalton White Sands

I’ll ask good friends and family (like my sister) but no one else. 

Post # 8
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8705 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

I don’t ask, but I’ll tell if asked.

Post # 9
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2014 - Ontario, Canada ♥ EDD- April 2016

I don’t ask, but I’ll answer if someone asks me. I usually ask them after I answer so that I don’t seem ‘rude’, but I don’t think it’s very polite to ask in the first place.

ETA: I think the exception is very close friends and family. I don’t feel weird asking or telling if I’m close to the person.

 

Post # 10
Hostess
7630 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2013

I don’t go out of my way to ask – like I wouldn’t call my friend just to see what her DH got her. However, it’s a possibility for small talk, especially since I see distant family and friends a lot this time of year. If don’t really know what to say to you I may ask you about your gifts and/or holiday plans. 

Post # 11
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10219 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

Etiquette Snob here… lol

Not generally (falls into the None Of My Biz category).  If I say anything it is perhaps… “Did you have a nice / good Christmas”… and then let them volunteer what they will.

Altho, I do have a very close GF or two I might ask details on if I know they had told me previously about something special they were hoping that Santa would bring

“Sooooo, Did Santa bring you those Earrings you told me about ?”

 

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I don’t ask, but I will tell when asked. I don’t know why, but I am a bit uncomfortable asking people. It just feels like I am asking to be nosy…and I am not a person who gets uncomfortable easily, but this does it. Especially because my husband and my parents tend to spoil me when it comes to gifts. Even when I am asked, it feels like bragging. OAN, my husband’s family literally shows all of their gifts when we go over for the holiday, and they expect me to do the same. One of my gifts from my husband was this gorgeous Movado watch, and they wanted to know why I didn’t wear it because they wanted to see it. My husband also bought me a rechargeable cell phone case (it’s the schitt), which I did have with me, and when I came out of the bathroom he was showing them. What the figgedy f*ck? It is weird.

Post # 13
Hostess
9903 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2014

@LadyBlackheart:  i ask all the time – not random strangers but friends and family.  I don’t see anything wrong with it.

Post # 14
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8282 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

I don’t ask. I’ve been asked by 1 friend. 

 

Post # 15
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554 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Wow I ask people! Whoops!

But it’s more conversational, like “did you have a good christmas, Santa bring you anything cool?” sort of thing, not for comparison & seeing who did better.

Post # 16
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511 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

I have certain close friends that I always talk about that sort of thing with after Christmas… we’ve been doing it since we were kids so I guess we just never stopped! But even then, I don’t usually ask for a full run down, I just ask if they got anything special. 

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