Do you do things alone if you DH/SO isn't with you

posted 3 years ago in The Lounge
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2014 - Prague

Not weird at all, if you enjoy yourself .:D

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

@Daizy914:  Definitely not weird! I haven’t yet gone to the movies alone, but I will someday. Why the heck not?!

Post # 5
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Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2014

Not weird at all! You’re obviously a very confident and secure woman! Many people would be too insecure to see a movie alone (IE-me). Do your thing girl 🙂

Post # 6
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Sugar bee

@Daizy914:  I would think it is more weird to just stay home and do nothing.  Your life doesn’t stop because he is gone.

You were a person before you ever met him, and would continue to be a person if (knock on wood) something ever happened to him.

Doing stuff isn’t just for people in a relationship.

Post # 7
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2014 - Royalton White Sands

I don’t particularly like doing things alone, but I do things without him when he’s busy. I usually opt to spend time with my sister or a friend.

Post # 8
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

If I’m the one away on business then I have no problem eating and going out by myself.  But if he’s the one away, I like to just be a lazy bum at home, same as when he’s home.

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I love to go to the movies alone, actually. Don’t get me wrong, I like going with my husband too. But I really like being able to watch a movie without talking, and without feeling stupid for crying.

Eating alone at a restaurant is something I don’t like very much though..

Post # 10
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

I don’t think it’s weird at all. Like a PP said, life doesn’t stop just because your SO is gone.

When DH is gone I will frequently go out to eat or to a movie by myself.

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@Daizy914:  yes! He’s not huge on soup, so when he’s gone I like to take myself out for a big bowl of pho. I bring my Kindle and slurp away while reading. Love it. 

Post # 12
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

Sometimes I prefer to do things alone!  When I lived in the city, I would do things alone alllll the time.  Now that we live together, and not in a city…I still do things alone!  

Post # 13
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2014

I don’t really go to movies or anything alone, but I do like to shop alone!

Post # 14
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Sugar bee

I like doing things alone but even when FI is away, DD is around (:

Post # 15
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

i do things alone!! DH is away till tues night so im trying to make a plan for the da. debating going into town and getting a fancy pizza from a restaurant he doesnt much like

maybe the movies too!

Post # 16
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2013

I enjoy my alone time, even when he’s around. We eat dinner together, we watch certain TV shows together, if there’s a movie we both want to see we’ll do that together also but I’ve gone by myself more than once. My husband and I don’t drag each other along to things we don’t mutually enjoy just for the sake of spending time with one another. Damned if you’ll see him set foot in a mall or me at a sports game. 

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