(Closed) Do you ever wonder if SO/FI/DH might kill you?

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Do you ever wonder if SO/FI/DH might kill you?
    Yes, it's always at the back of my mind. : (7 votes)
    2 %
    Sometimes, usually after watching something scary on tv : (59 votes)
    16 %
    Never! : (224 votes)
    61 %
    I haven't before... but I will now! : (21 votes)
    6 %
    He'd never kill me... but I really hope I never snap and kill him! ;-) : (54 votes)
    15 %
  • Post # 3
    963 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    It’s never crossed my mind. I have sometimes wondered if I would ever snap and kill him lol.

    Post # 5
    2961 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    I have nothing to fear from FH, it is him that needs to worry about me! I studied martial arts for 18 years and he knows what I am fully capable of. By The Way, I have never delibrately hurt anyone in my life but under the right circumstances, I WILL defend myself!

    Post # 6
    8230 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2012

    the thought has never even crossed my mind to be honest

    Post # 7
    5663 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2012

    @VAwife:  HAHA yes, maybe that should be in the poll!

    This has never crossed my mind, and my husband has never (since I’ve known him) displayed much of a violent temper. I HAVE however wondered if one day all the things he doesn’t share with me verbally will combust and he will freak the eff out in some way. 

    Post # 8
    1306 posts
    Bumble bee

    I’ve thought about it.  I’ve hesitated telling him about my life insurance policy where he is the sole beneficiary LOL.  No, I don’t think he’ll murder me for money.  But it has crossed my mind.  I guess I’ve watched too much Dateline. 

    Post # 9
    2107 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    Can’t say that I have EVER wondered this…

    Post # 10
    11234 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2013

    Not with my Fiance, but with my ex.

    Post # 11
    2697 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    Holy shit fuck, no.

    I’m pretty morbid, but this specifically has never crossed my mind.

    Post # 12
    6207 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2013 - The Liberty House

    No, I have never worried about this, nor do I think I ever will. He doesn’t even yell at me, even in arguments.

    Post # 13
    1431 posts
    Bumble bee

    @VAwife:  Ha! Have you ever watched Snapped on the oxygen channel? All stories about wives who lost it and killed their husbands. 


    @jayebaby:  I understand what you mean by husbands usually being the ones who kill their wives. I always think of Scott Peterson and how no one one in the family would ever have seen that coming. So yes, the thought has crossed my mind and my conclusion was NO my husband would never do that.

    Post # 14
    5966 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2018

    Yeah….but only because Mr. 99 laughs in his sleep, it’s this really creepy and sinister thing to hear in the middle of the night, total horror movie fodder….I know he never would but in the middle of the night, in a pitch black room, to hear this hulk of a man start to chuckle…it freaks me out!

    Post # 15
    2053 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    @jayebaby:  Not with my husband but with my ex there was a real threat…hence being my ex. I agree there’s been times I thought I might snap! LOL But no. I think you’re brave to bring up this topic and I like how you did it. It is important to talk about things we’re afraid of or make us feel abnormal.

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