(Closed) Do you ever wonder: “what if they read this?”

posted 9 years ago in Family
Post # 3
Member
818 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

Sometimes I wonder, but (for me) the only things I post on here that I wouldn’t want to be seen are my wedding dress and FI is the only one who can’t see that. I can’t see him getting on this website, or even knowing it exists.

Post # 5
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14186 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

This is why I don’t tell people about it. I tell them I get all my lovely ideas from trolling blogs….just not this one.

I don’t really worry though. This isn’t a very common forum in St. Louis. and my FI’s family is relatively anti-internet anyways =]

Post # 7
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2856 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

No, I do not worry because the people involved in my wedding would never visit this site. Some of them don’t even own or have worked on a computer before. Others have been married quite some time and not really interested in this cool stuff. Plus, I usually just say I got my ideas from a few wedding blogs.

Post # 8
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1205 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2009

I doubt anyone would recognize me from my posts. I’ve also seen some stories very similar to mine … as well as lots that make me grateful for good I have things.

I posted one problem/rant about my FSIL, and if she found it, I’d have to tell her thank Weddingbee for helping me calm down and be the rational adult I should be!

Post # 10
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5399 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

All I know is, you never know who will find you!  My hubby stays away from here, but somehow found one of my posts oneday doing a google search about a topic I wrote about here.

Post # 12
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137 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

Great now i am second guessing having my real pic up in my advatar!! LOL I know a lot of computer talented people which is the scary part. New pic coming soon

Post # 13
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302 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

I actually was thinking of a suggestion to stop the ability to see past posts when you click on someone’s name.  I don’t actually like that feature and I do worry about someone finding me on here.  That why I took the link to my personal blog down.  I have vented TOO much and we don’t have to ability to delete past posts.  So lately, I have been trying to watch my responses more and threads started, because, I do not own those comments, weddingbee does.

 I have so many engaged friends, I’m sure they will get on here eventually, I mean how could they not? 🙂

 

Post # 14
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1266 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

only my FI knows I am on this site, however I do wonder quite often if my friends would ever find it.my alias chantellamus is a very known name for me by my friends – and even if you did a google search of your login name it shows up some of the topics you have been involved in, which in the end could be the only thing to cause me trouble!I dont think this site is known by many where I am from – at least with my group of friends, so I think I may be in the clear.

 

Post # 15
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1266 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

@ticachika – ha ha ha a secret society! thats EXACTLY what it feels like ha ha ha!

Post # 16
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5399 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

My alias here is also well know by people I know, so I always wonder.  But you have to thin, will they be like, "Hey I saw you wrote this online?"  Or will they know and just keep it to themselves? 

It was just funny when my hubby found one particular thread he was like, "So what do all your little friends think?"  He was totally gloating because people on here were siding more with him on something, lol.

Post # 17
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815 posts
Busy bee

My BF knows everything I have mentioned here.  In a way this probably saves him a lot of wedding talk, which I’m sure he doesn’t mind.  He knows I have a favorite blog that I follow religiously and teases me about it.  If I mention something I saw online he’ll say "did you see that on your favorite blog?  Igotmyrock.com?  Or is it checkoutmybling.com?"  Silly man…

 The one time I was a little worried was when I posted about my issues with my FSIL, but then I thought about it and if Weddingbee opens up a line of communication then that’s actually a good thing!

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