Do you get along with your SO'S friends?

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 2
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2016

I really like most of his friends! We hang out in a large group very frequently and I consider many of his friends to be my friends as well! 

 

He he has one or two that I could take or leave and one or two that I wish we never had to hang out with ever again. He knows which friends I do not care for and tries to hang out with them when I am not around. I do the same for him

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2016

Jennybee224:  good! I don’t think I could be with someone if I hated all their friends! Part of who he is is who he chooses to spend time with! 

Post # 5
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Blushing bee

Eh. Not really. I mean, I don’t hate them but they aren’t my friends so yeah. They are guys that my bf has known since 2nd grade and I’m super happy that they are all still friends and that he has them to rely on. But I don’t really want to hang out with them. So they usually have boy’s nights and I just hang out with my friends and family.

Post # 7
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Helper bee

Jennybee224:  SO has a few casual friends (more like aquaintances), that I don’t really know. They’re mostly from work. Some of them seem nice, and some seem like total jerks.

His best friend is a total sweetheart though, and I consider him a friend. They have a great relationship, and he’ll definitely be referred to as “Uncle” BFF in the future.

Post # 8
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

We have mostly mutual friends, but I can’t really think of anyone he knows that I don’t particularly care for.

Post # 9
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Blushing bee

Well being the youngest girl coming into the circle of his friendship was quite hard. 

All of his friends partners are very close so they all hang out regulary, doing girly things. Yet its kind of a clik they have going on. When i entered the circle i never really fitted in due to being 3-4 years younger,  which kinda sucked. I am still always friendly to the girls even if they prefer each others company. 

But thankfully he is still great friends with the guys.

🙂

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

My fiance’s best friends are really good guys, and I like that. I would worry if my fiance was buddies with cheaters, liars, etc. etc. 

Post # 11
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Busy bee

I really love all of his friends that I’ve met (he’s going to grad school states away so I haven’t met any of his new friends down there)

Everyone in his life who is important has accepted me completely and with no reservations. His best friend likes to tease me for being sappy and jokes about my SO being whipped but it’s all in jest. I was his first relationship (at 21 we’re now 25) so everyone was thrilled he found someone.

Post # 12
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

There are a few of DH’s old friends who I think are kind of pretentious pricks, which is odd because most of his friends (like the vast, vast majority) are the least pretentious people on the planet.

And there are a couple who I just think are kind of irritating.

But I can’t think of any of his friends who I look at and say “he is a bad person, please don’t hang out with him.”

Hell, I’m even really good friends with most of his friends’ wives. Good times.

Post # 13
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2013

All of our friends are mutual.

Post # 14
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Blushing bee

The boyfriend’s friends are the drunken and womanizing goofs he had warned me about prior to meeting them. They gave me the thumbs up and told me they approved of me because I’m “not a slut”. I don’t mind them at all, but because he doesn’t get to see them as often I still feel like I’m on the edge of the circle.

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee

I don’t dislike his friends. We just don’t really hang out often so I don’t have a strong opinion of them either way.

I do have to say though one of his friends gf I really don’t like, and they’re always wanting to do couple stuff with us and I’m just like :/

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