Post # 1
It’s taken me a lonnnng time to realise that my libido is MUCH highter than my fi. I used to think it had something to do with me and it bothered me quite a lot but it turns out that he’s quite happy with the amount of sex we have.
Then I read somewhere that a woman’s libido in a relationship goes up as she feels secure and able to express her sexual desires and a man’s goes down as he feels secure and able to express his non-sexual emotions.
A light hearted post for you to vote in. Do you agree with this post and do you think you get enough 😉
For the record I voted hell no!
Post # 3
I voted hell yes! I’m deliriously happy with our sex life. I don’t think the thing about a man expressing his feelings makes his sex drive go down is true at all, at least not for us it’s not. My Fiance is very communicative and expressive about his feelings (of love and adoration for me ! ;)) and has just as high a sex drive as I do, which is very high!
We joke about how horny we always are for each other and I hope we always stay like this. We love long weekends, like the one we just had, because it gives us more time for sex.
Morning sex, early naptime sex, late afternoon sex, sex before we leave the house to go anywhere (even before church sometimes, haha), and then our usual nightime-sleep sex. It’s really amazing we got so much yard work done this past weekend.
Post # 4
The right amount for us, whatever the right amount is anyway…
Post # 5
We have quite a bit. We both have high sex drives. His may be a tad higher than mine, but not by far.
Post # 6
@Sunfire: I hate you right now. 😉
Post # 8
Nope. But we are LDR, and that is the reason for it! But we can knock it out 2-5 times in a weekend to make up for lost time…
Post # 9
My drive is higher than SO’s but we meet in the middle which is good enough for me! We average out to 14-16 days per month, and every so often we’ll have second and third rounds. Yay for long weekends!! 😉
Post # 10
>_< nope. We actually have had sex twice this month! Before that, it had been about two/ verging on three weeks. And before that, it had been almost two months. It typically ends up being about once a month- as in uhh, I think I’m gonna get my period in like, a week. If we wanna have sex, we should probably do it now. We’re both busy, I have a job as a server so my schedule is not the neat and convenient 8am-5pm like his, and he has a bad knee which makes a lot of positions uncomfortable for him (and I haven’t been on top very often so I haven’t really gotten good at it so it isn’t as good so we don’t do it like that very often… it’s kinda a cycle -_-) but we’re working on it…
Post # 11
Lately its been too much! lol
I don’t know what he ate or whatnot but he has been in the mood DAILY and my poor cooter needs a break because he tears it up (but in a good way haha).
I have to be careful with sex now because I had a vaginal hysterectomy about 5 months ago and if he gets alittle too excited OOWWWIIEEE hahaha
Post # 12
@Koi Fishie: Haha the period thing totally happens at our house
Frankly we are just lazy and prefer to have sex on weekends so we don’t get much on a weekly basis. We used to have sex multiple times a week, but we are both lazy about it so we are both fine with it. I think we both would like to be having a bit more though, it’s good for our relationship and we seem to get along better the more sex we have!
Post # 13
Post # 14
Frankly I think we both prefer it to be intense and energetic. So when we’re sleepy or just physically tired, it’s hard to get revved up.
We need to work on that more. With that said, we’re pretty open about it and there’s a LOT of physical touching (cuddling, kissing, butt/boob grabbing, junk-grabbing) in general. So, although I’d like it more, I don’t worry too much about the state of our relationship at this point.
Post # 15
@Soon2BeeMrsG: Umm… HELL NO! =/ I’m incredibly unsatisfied in that category, he knows, doesn’t care. He says that sex can dull a relationship if you do it too much. No sex can dull a relationship if you don’t do it enough or at all. Just sayin’.
I second @JulesSchnooks comment to @Sunfire‘s response on the OP. Except that I don’t hate you, I despise you right now. Lol.
Post # 16
He would be thrilled if he never had to have sex with me again.