(Closed) Do you give the bachelorette party organizers a gift?

posted 8 years ago in Gifts and Registries
  • poll: Do I give the bachelorette organizer a gift?
    Yes, the $15 champagne works : (3 votes)
    27 %
    Yes, but it needs to be better than $15 champagne : (2 votes)
    18 %
    No, no gift needed since you are doing the planning and people will be paying for themselves : (6 votes)
    55 %
  • Post # 3
    476 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: April 2010

    Wait a second…you mean I have to get them gifts?!  But really, the bottles of champagne sound perfect.

    Post # 4
    6572 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: February 2010

    it sounds like you’re doing most of the work! i didn’t give my hosts anything… but i’m giving them really nice gifts for being in the wedding party.

    Post # 5
    2695 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: April 2010

    I’ve always been given a gift for doing the bach party planning.  The last one the bride gave us cute wine glasses.  Another one the bride brought funny items for all of us to wear.

    Post # 6
    505 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: January 2012

    WOW!! I never got a gift for planning my cousins bach party a few years ago 🙁   The  only thing I got was a nasty hangover the next morning…pfft. And I paid for her all night long too, along with other girls, but I paid for her part of the limo, drinks, dinner, strippers, bar entry fees, & hotel.  I guess I got hosed huh!

    Post # 7
    1232 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2009

    @smoki- since you’re doing all of the work I think the champagne is a nice gesture, but is definitely not required. IF they were doing all that Ms Sassy did for her friend I would DEFINTELY get them a very nice gift.
    Poor Ms Sassy 🙁 I totally commend you for being an awesome friend though!

    Post # 8
    1194 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    I’ve thrown quite a few bachelorette parties and have never received a gift.  It didn’t matter to me because I was so happy to throw a great night out for my friends. 

    One of the girls I threw one for did treat me and the other girls who helped out to a night out at the bar on her.  We thought it was very generous of her, but it was not necessary at all.

    Post # 10
    1232 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2009

    Yeah, I would pass! The hotel room is a gift!

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