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I do!! She is a fremeny because she is one of my FI friend's wife. She purposely invited my FI to their wedding but not me. Yeah...but I still have to be civil. I hope they dont show up to our wedding.
HoneyBear How rude of her! Mine was (I thought) my best friend and she slept with someone I was seeing. She was also my roommate. GRRR.
Yep, the bf's ex girlfriend (my ex friend). She's hopefully out of our lives for good but I can totally imagine her becoming one of those girls who stalks our wedding and cancels our deposits and stuff like that. Hopefully that doesn't happen.
But honestly, it's really a sore spot for me as I generally feel like I'm really a well-liked person, so having someone out there hating me really feels terrible! I wish I could tie up this loose end but I don't think that's going to happen for us.
@cbee: Whaaaaaaat. Thats crazy! You win, why would she do something like that?
I have a weird situation with a girl who was my close friend, then dated FI when we were on a break, then I hated her (obviously), but then FI and I got happily together and have been for years, and she's also in a serious relationship with a guy we're friends with. She and I are friends again, and I really do like hanging out with her, but part of me always feels just a tiny bit competitive toward her. It's stupid, and I should be over it (because hello, I got the guy and the ring, and we're both better off than we were), but I still feel it. Weird.
HoneyBear The real kicker though, is that after that, I wanted her to be involved in our wedding and she ignored me. I called her, I FBed her, I emailed her. It hurt so much to just be ignored. Very unsettling. Very unsettled. I think she was/ is insecure and was always jealous, very mean to me in public, passive aggressive- it is just sad that I didn't realize at the time and was such a great friend to her.
kirabee Yikes. I think that having some unsettled business/ people that don't "like" you is just part of life unfortunately. That stinks that you aren't sure if it is over, or if she will resurface again.
Miss OBG I can relate to that. I think it is natural you still feel that way. It stinks though, competitive feelings. :/ I would feel the same way. I just don't want to turn into a "hater," like a jealous person though- jealous of the person that was jealous of me, or secretly wanting to outdue them, have them fail.
Yes...it goes back to high school (which is totally pathetic I know) but FI is still really good friends with her twin brother, so it is still kind of relevant. She was very jealous that my family was a little more well-off than hers (and this all started because I went into her house one day, realized that the same builder built our previous house and it was the exact same model only reversed and I happened to mention that we had kicked out a couple walls) and decided from sophomore year I was crap. I spent two years killing her with kindness. Then our senior year FI and I took a "break" and she happened to step in and decided to ask him to our senior prom. Needless to say, that didn't go over well with me, and now we don't speak....
There is a lady that the FH occasionally works with (thank goodness it's occasionally). Everytime I see her I want to punch her in the neck. When I first started seeing the FH, she would often join the boys for afterwork cocktails. I usually meet up with them. One night, while I was in the bathroom, she told him that he should leave me and give her a chance..bla..bla..bla.. When I came out she was leaving and FH had a freaked out look. He told me what happened and was pissed about it, as was I. Now, whenever he works at that plant and he goes out with the boys, she invites herself. He has to be cordial to her, as she is a plant rep, but I still want to punch her in the throat. I am sure she knows by my coldness that I know what she did.
I used to have an arch enemy. I worked with her and she would make my skin crawl just being around her. Her dad died when she was young in a tragic accident and her mommy felt so bad for her that she did whatever she wanted for her. Girl wanted second car, begged mom for it, and got it. She was paying a large sum of money every year for car insurance for both cars and would spend extra money every couple weeks to "pimp" it out. She tinted her windows, got black rims, funky lights, and a trunk full of speakers. All of her extra money was spent buying very expensive jeans and other forms of clothing. After she put in her two weeks (as she was going away to college in which mommy was paying for, and she would not have to work and was able to live in her own suite) she decided that working was completely overrated and spent her whole last several months walking around in circles doing NOTHING, only texting her friends on her Blackberry. IN FRONT OF CUSTOMERS AT THE WINDOW.
Anyways, enough about that. I'm just saying thank GOD I don't have to work with her anymore.
I used to. I don't really think about it too much anymore since it was ages ago. Basically, FI dated this girl for a year off and on, in the TENTH GRADE and part of the next year. She was one of my good friends (so I guess I broke some sort of friendship law...it sounds bad when i put it that way), but FI and I developed feelings for each other months after they broke up. She FREAKED and I mean, absolutely went nuts and has been trying to ruin/interfere ever since. Let me mention this was FIVE YEARS AGO and she has had 2 boyfriends since then. It got to the point last year where I said "Bitch Step OFF!" and I NEVER get that way lol. I am known as the quiet, shy girl...but this chick just can't let go of the fact that I "stole" her EX boyfriend back in 2006. Seriously, I left high school in 2007, what in the world?? haha We all ended up at the same college and she "happened" to see FI all the time around campus and tried to start stuff (which prompted the "step off" comment). Just a few months ago, she messaged him on FB and asked why they couldn't be friends. She knows we are engaged and she's had a serious boyfriend for at least 2 years. I just don't understand the need for drama at this point in our lives.
@cbee: Yeah I sort of get mad at myself every time I feel competitive, because there's no point at all. But my mind has been wired to believe I'm being judged against her (ever since the drama with FI when we weren't together), and now it just happens automatically. We're actually really good friends though, which is why it kills me to feel this way. I also don't want to be a hater.
I do! My future SIL's boyfriend accused my fiance of cheating on me because one of his friends saw him at a bar with another girl and assumed he was cheating (I've known the girl for 4 years and we're good friends, he told me everything that was happening, I literally thought nothing of it).
he and my FSIL spent two days reasoning and explaining how he was cheating on me, and she was absolutely convinced, and she told my FMIL.
Neither of them have said a word to my face about anything, neither of them thought of talking to either of us like actual adults with concerns, they gossiped - excuse me - "shared their concerns" with her mom. He is the most manipulative jerk I've ever met and I can't imagine he'd show his face at our wedding.
who puts that much time and energy into proving something that doesn't even effect them?
I used to, it was a girl that I worked with. She was the biggest, gossipy bitch ever. She tried to bad-mouth me to my boss. Then... I caught her basically stealing from work and got her ass fired.
Buh-bye. Thanks for playing.
@Mrs.tobe: I would have punched her somewhere more painful than the neck! What a ho-bag!
I TOTALLY DO! ANDDDD that's all I'm saying on the interwebz. :)
I do! FI & I met her through friends. We tried to be nice to her after she broke up with her boyfriend. She then tried to steal my FI (he was boyfriend then). When that didn't works, she decided to try to be friends with me. We both wanted to get into the same master's program. I got in, and she didn't. She then badmouthed me on her message board. I saw it and haven't spoke to her since.
She knew FI & I were planning on getting engaged. We have been dating three years. Amazingly, she got engaged two days before me to someone she's been dating less than half the time FI & I have been together. I set a date for May 2012 and hers is in September of this year. It's like she has to do everything before me.
I want to punch her.
I don't at this moment in my life, but I have in the past. They are almost always girls that my husband's friends are dating. I don't know why they like such annoying and/or bitchy women! Unfortunatley, I've been hearing that one of them might be making a comeback, and I'm dreading it. I can't stand that girl!
I really need to get over this but my FWB guy that I was hanging out with before FI is my enemy. I refused to date/have a relationship with him because he regreted me three times before when I asked him to go out. So when I started seeing FI I told him, I am seeing R and was really straightforward with everything.
ANYWAYS, he let's call him Z freaked out! He and R were friends throughout high school and long before I came along and when R and I started dating he was like to R, "You f&%* stolen my girlfriend, wahwahwah". Uhuh, one, I am not property and two I was NEVER your girlfriend. You let that ship sail long ago. Anyways, he decided to blame R for everything, R didn't even know about our FWB relationship. Then he wanted to be friends with me but not with R and anytime he saw R he cried.
So we cut ties, then he told everyone about how much of a bitch and asshole we are and how R stole his girlfriend so R lost all his high school friends. For a while, he would yell stuff at us if he saw us walking down the street and I would just call him an asshole. Then I egged his car last winter when it was -45 out. He still hasn't washed it off.
And if you find this Z, yes, I did F%#^ your car! HA!
Yup...my former best friend and roommate. Moving in together killed our friendship.
I have many arch-nemeses but most of them don't know I exist. Disliking them just fuels a rich inner life. They are Kate Gosselin, Sarah Palin, laundry, Kelle Hampton, and then there's mini-arch-nemeses who are my arch-enemies for awhile after they do something like cut me off in traffic, but who I forget about pretty quickly.
@Bostongrl25: Me too! I lived with my best friend and it definitely put a strain on our friendship for a long time. It's been almost a year since we stopped living together, so things have gotten a little better, although not the same as before we were living together. I think we've both accepted the fact that our friendship has changed.
Other than that, I apparently had a arch enemy in high school. I briefly dated this guy in high school, lets call him Joe, and Joe and I broke up, but we are still friends to this day (Joe and I dated almost 12 years ago). Well, Joe was friends with this girl Janice, who I knew of but don't think I spoke to once in high school, and Janice decided that she didn't like me because I dated Joe. I mean, most of the time, I really don't care if someone doesn't like me, because I think that's their problem, but I do think people should actually get to know me before deciding not to like me!
@Novemberfriends: I HATE my future sister-in-law!!!!! WITH A PASSION!!! lol
OMG! We have the same frenemy! My SIL is very passive-aggressive. I cannot even start describing or giving examples now because I will not be able to stop. Ugh!
Thanks for sharing bees! I guess I have one that goes back to highschool too: I might as well dish it, right?
This girl was in all the same sports and played the same instrument (stand partners!) and we sat next to one another in every class because of our last names. Well, she liked a friend of mine who became my boyfriend and she freaked. Then, she was stopped talking to me, so did her pack of friends, -it was a rough time because she would not speak to me- even about things pertaining to our music. It was a hard time, it stinks to be treated with the silent treatment to such an extreme. Her mother had died in middle school (so had my stepdad) and she was friends with the principal, so she got every scholarship (small school- I was NOT from there). Recently I found out she married a different guy I had been seeing in highschool - and she married him AT MY NEIGHBORS. ? How weird is that?
A lot of these are funny, thanks for sharing! :)
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I do. I totally do. I hope I get over it, because it isn't doing me any good and the person isn't even in my life anymore. They just wronged me and hurt me so much when I thought they were my best friend.
I totally need to get over it! Unfortunately this person is in the same field I am, and so I still feel competitive toward them.
I want to get over it! Can anyone else relate? I hate even admitting it because I know I have to move on.