Do you have hissy fits? Does your partner?

posted 4 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Do either of you have hissy fits?
    I do, but my partner doesn't : (43 votes)
    29 %
    I don't, but my partner does : (15 votes)
    10 %
    Neither of us do : (73 votes)
    49 %
    We both do *stomps feets* : (19 votes)
    13 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    62 posts
    Worker bee

    Umm, no I don’t. That sounds like a tantrum a 5 year old would have!

    Post # 4
    Member
    3127 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: December 2017

    I don’t, nor would I ever continue to date someone that does. That sounds immature and childish. There are better ways to express your anger than acting like a toddler.

    Post # 5
    Member
    5213 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: February 2013

    @MrsPanda99:  I used to, but not since we’ve been married. If I storm out I have nowhere else to stay. 

    Post # 7
    Member
    1937 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: February 2014

    @MrsPanda99:  I’ll admit, sometimes i get a little whiny, but usually my wonderful FI either shoves food down my throat or takes me to bed. I swear, I’m like a 5 year old. I get fussy when I’m tired or hungry. 

    But we don’t throw things, hide things, etc. And most of the time, I’m just being silly. 

    Post # 8
    Member
    4442 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: January 2013 - Harbourfront Grand Hall

    @MrsPanda99:  Oh man, I have to be the first person to say this?  We both definitely do, although we don’t throw things or scream to the degree of a 2 year old.

    I’m terrible when I’m on my period, I hate the skin I’m in and EVERYTHING drives me crazy so sometimes after I’ve said enough terrible things to him for no reason I go in the bathroom and cry.

     

    He will get upset about stupid things (usually when he’s been drinking) and end up stomping off to his man cave for a few hours.

    Post # 9
    Member
    9626 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2012

    No, neither of us are that way at all.  We’re both fairly even-tempered people.  🙂

    Post # 10
    Member
    4416 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    My husband definitely has little tantrums sometimes. He doesn’t throw things or anything like that, but he gets pissy like a teenage girl if something is frustrating him, and he’ll start swearing and getting rough with it like it’s gonna somehow magically fix and do what he wants it to do if he starts slamming it down on things. I just laugh at him and his little fits. He gets over them quickly enough and no permanent damage is done 😛

    Post # 12
    Member
    2524 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: November 2013

    We both get frustrated but not violent.  That’s really immature in my opinion.

    Post # 13
    Member
    1286 posts
    Bumble bee

    neither one of us are fighters. we both think it’s immature to fight over petty, stupid things.  we are 2 very calm and patient people 

    Post # 14
    Member
    1464 posts
    Bumble bee

    Definitely not. When he gets upset/annoyed/etc he’s the king of the stupid, sulky, sullen silent treatment-drives me nutso. I’m like a major over communicator so when I’m upset I just talk and talk and talk until I’ve said something stupid and then I’m sorry and not mad anymore haha

    Post # 15
    Member
    7656 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2012

    I’ve gone to the bathroom and cried a few times when I get overwhelmed, but I equate that to taking the time to havfe my space and sort through my feelings. It allows me to collect my thoughts so I don’t say something I will regret.

    Post # 16
    Hostess
    11178 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper

    Oh lord do I ever. I don’t throw things or get violent or distructive but yeah I can get downright irrational and loud at times. Thankfully I have a DH that sees past the ridiculous to understand that sometimes I am just a wee bit irrational.

    He is always as cool as a cucumber, it is crazy.

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