(Closed) Do you know what I want to say right now? It’s to F.S.I.L. …. please go …

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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410 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

That would make me very angry.. I think I would have to restrain my self from knocking her out… I can’t say that I have someone in the fam like that, but if I did it would not go over well… If I had to deal with that I would honestly send cards to the people who you don’t want there telling them they cant come… I am mean and if they are not my friends I would not care if I made them mad. I may even go as far as making a list and having a person at the door checking people in.. if they are not on “the list” then they don’t get it.. too bad so sad…

 

I hope everyting gets better.. blow up pic of her and throw darts….

Post # 4
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404 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

Sorry you have an annoying soon to be relative, I totally know what that is like!!  I don’t  have any suggestions on how to deal, but aren’t you glad you can come on WB and vent!!!

Post # 5
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404 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

Oh and about her mailing her invite to someone else…..Oh.My.GOD.  Who does she think she is, seriously!!!!!!!!  Such horrendous manners.  What a crazy b*tch. 

Post # 7
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1901 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

So sorry! What is wrongwith her? Jealous much? I would be worried that these people who were hounded into sending an RSVP might say they are coming and not show up. What if she is throwing your numbers off? Someone needs to put a stop to this behavior!

Post # 9
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1084 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

It does sound like a bit much . . . and this might be an unpopular opinion, but I do think blood runs thick and so don’t cut or hurt ties with family, especially if it hurts your FI.  The behavior is a bit crazy and she’s making more work for you, so if you think it would change what she’s doing, talk to her, if you don’t think it would change her at all, just go an undo her damage as best you can, try and apologize when you talk to your friends that they were hounded.  Don’t do anything too obvious at your wedding to snub her or it will be more of a focal point for people than the actual wedding, and you want the attention for a great wedding, not for an awkward family relationship.

Post # 11
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2397 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

Wow, I am SO sorry!  I would be irate!!  Can’t you get your FI to tell her to back off?  I know it’s family and all of that, but it’s your wedding, not hers!  I would call the people she demanded answers from and explain the situation and apologize, then I would try and get their honest answer about if they are coming or not. That’s just me though 🙂

Would it do any good to try and reason with her?  Or is that just out of the question?

 

Post # 13
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1901 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Can someone slip her a valium or something? TOTALLY kidding.

I think the complete silent treatment will handle things best in this situation. Just focus on you, your FI and envision all going well on your day. Don’t give her an ounce more of your energy.

Post # 14
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14186 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

How old is this crazy chick? She needs a kick in the arse if you ask me. I think I would have gone ballistic on her sorry butt by now! Can FI or mom and dad talk to her? She sounds so spoiled, I mean, WTF is her deal?!?!?! Sorry you are dealing with her. WHat a nutso! Hopefully she doesn’t throw a public fit at your wedding and make a temper tantrum or something. Gosh!

@AZBride, I’m not gonna lie, I’d probably have the FI slip her something….=]. A few dramamine? ha.

Post # 15
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2719 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Holy cow! I would be sooo pissed! I would have talked to her (or yelled lol). Can your FI or her mom talk to her? If not, I would be close to telling her not to show.

Post # 16
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3098 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2009

Um, I’d probably slap the snot out of her!! 

Lol, no really – I’m pretty confrontational, so if it were me – she would totally get told. 

But you have us!!! Keep venting to us, and we’ll keep sympathizing!! 

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