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do you let your man see you without makeup??

posted 2 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Do you let your guy see you "sans fards"
    NO WAY!!! : (1 votes)
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    All the time, he does'nt mind : (457 votes)
    93 %
    Every once in a while... : (14 votes)
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    Only when I wake up, before I put on my make-up :) : (20 votes)
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    JennyChicago    August 7, 2010  

    the weather here in Chicago has been retarded and on the weekdays when I have nothing to do (just graduated school and no job! lol)  I feel ZERO motivation to wear make-up like seriously ZERO! I also hate doing my hair now because im letting it grow out for the wedding and it is seriously getting on my nerves!

    Anyway yesterday my my hunny decided to pick me up at 9 in the freakin morning and only gave me 15min to get ready...so as we were driving I told him half joking half serious that I was sorry I looked crappy and wasnt wearing any makeup. Then he goes to tell me about survey he heard on the radiod about how many girfriends/wives let their man see them without makeup and he said the answer was only 12%!!! I seriously doubt that but I dont know..am I the minority here? I am pretty sure most girlfriends wouldnt let thei man see them w/o makeup I was like that the first few years we were dating but now if I dont feel like wearing make up then I wont wear make up :)

     
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    roxy821    August 21, 2010  

    He had to have heard that wrong of it was a poll of teenage girls LOL

    I highly doubt 88% of woman go to bed with their makeup on.

     
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    rosepinkslipper    August 21, 2010   San Francisco, getting married in Seattle

    Wow, that is insane! Well I am certainly in said 12%.

     
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    hotchildinthecity    June 12, 2010   New York, NY

    All the time.  Especially in the summer, because I hardly ever wear makeup then!

     
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    Kittyachi    August 2010   New York

    I never wear makeup around the house. I don't really even wear that much makeup when I go out.

     
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    troubled      

    I very rarely wear any make up so I voted all the time.  Foundation on me creeps him out, I was worried because for the wedding I wanted to even out skin for pictures but luckily my sister did an amazing job with bare minerals at keeping it natural looking.  People have tried before but that's the only stuff I've been able to use that doesn't make my skin feel like it's going to itch off and doesn't give him the heeby jeebies. 

     
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    Ella1978    June 19, 2010   Cleveland, Ohio

    Ha, yes.  I wear very sheer makeup to begin with, and if I wouldn't wash it off, I'd have a face full of acne!  So I would say that 50% of the time he is around me, I'm w/o makeup!

     
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    sloth    May 14, 2011   Philadelphia, PA

    Of course I let him see me without makeup. We've been living together for 4 years now.

    I'd be really surprised if anyone on a wedding board still didn't let their SO see them without makeup.

    And I agree with Roxy. He must have heard wrong, or whoever he heard on the radio must have been wrong. I can't believe that 88% of women don't let their husbands see them bare-faced.

     
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    JustlikeHeaven    March 6, 2009  

    Wow.. I mean although I probably wear make-up EVERY DAY.. I do wash my face in the shower, or to go to sleep and dont always apply my make-up right after waking up. So my husband does see me without make-up a lot. I have heard about ladies that do not let their husbands see them without makeuo though. Also, when we were dating and not living together .. the first few times we stayed the night together somewhere I will admit I washed my face, eye make-up and just reapplied a little bit of powder

     
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    hilsy85    September 2010  

    That's insane...I can't imagine not letting my FI see me without makeup. He likes me better that way (which I find strange, lol).

     
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    Medina1111    November 11, 2011   Houston

    "If he cant handle me at my worst then why the hell would I let him handle me on my best"

     

    ok I changed it a lot but Marilyn Monroe knew what she was talking about ;)

     
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    Meowkers    August 27, 2011   Los Angeles, CA

    that survey seems really wrong.  How can you avoid that?  What about when you wake up, go to bed, go swimming, are sick, work out, shower, clean, etc etc?  My FH saw me without makeup probably within a week of dating.  He always tells me that he thinks i'm the prettiest when I'm not wearing any makeup and especially right when i wake up.

     
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    missjyc    September 18, 2010   macomb, michigan

    i cant believe that statistic... i'm a daily make-up wearer, but that's usually at work, as soon as i get home, i wash my face workout get dinner goin shower and wash my face before bed... that's ridiculous that ppl would try to hide behind makeup in a relationship...

     
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    Rocktsrgn    May 22, 2010   living in Tucson, wedding in Atlanta

    I'm willing to bet that statistic was made up (har har). 

    My guy would rather that I NOT wear makeup, and I'm happy to oblige.  I only wear it to dress up anyhow. 

    I did know a woman once who hopped out of bed every morning before her husband woke up to put on her makeup and brush her teeth, and then hopped back into bed with him so he would wake up to a freshly "made up" wife.  Insane. 

     
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    Miss Chapstick    September 2009  

    Umm, if my husband minded seeing me without make-up, I wouldn't have married him. That statistic is BS to the max.

     
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    Teaserama    March 18, 2010   Dunedin, Fl

    My husband sees me all the time without make up. He said the sexiest I look is right before bed, when I am washing my face and I have my hair tied back. He's a weirdo... but oh well. Laughing

     
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    Twista    October 2, 2010   Roanoke, VA

    My fiance has only seen me wear makeup at two weddings that I was in and at one that we went to as guests.  I only wear it when I have to dress up/look really nice for something.  I'll wear it for engagement and bridal pictures so I don't look really pale and I'll wear it at the wedding, since that's a pretty important day, lol.

     
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    Brianalaura    August 14, 2010   Ontario, Canada

    I'm with a bunch of the other ladies; I don't wear make-up on a regular basis.  I only wear make-up when I'm going out/special occasions or know my picture will be taken.  I'm too lazy, and most make-up gives me horrible break-outs.

     
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    ejs4y8    June 20, 2009  

    I really have a hard time believing most women let their SERIOUS significant others only see them with makeup on. I mean, really, how feasible is that? The first thing I do when I come home is pretty much wash my face! 

    Maybe it was only 12% that "never" let their SO see them without makeup. Which i believe--IF you're in a new relationship. And, you know, you're really self conscious? I guess if I had really bad skin I'd be less inclined to let him see me without makeup on if we were a newer couple.

    But heck..we're married...he gets to see it all. And i do wear makeup every day to work, though. He's told me that while he thinks i'm beautiful either way (aww) he'd think i was sloppy if i didn't wear makeup out to dinners, events, work, etc, and he does admit I look prettier WITH makeup on. Eh, I think I look better with mascara on, my eyes contoured, and my face evened out and everything, too! So it's all good.

     
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    Tulip61110    June 11, 2010   Philadelphia

    He sees me all the time without makeup and with my hair not done.  We live together so it's pretty much unavoidable.  We are pretty much like an old married couple by now anyway.

     
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    marlew    October 23, 2010   Ajax, Ontario

    It's a rare occasion for me to wear makeup at all..FI actually asks me sometimes why I don't.  I just don't know how to wear it without looking like a clown, and I'm lazy, so I can't be bothered.

     
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    Superstitions    July 25, 2009   TX

    I rarely ever wear make-up at all. Before the wedding, I think he saw me in make-up a total of maybe one or two times, and those were mandatory for plays or special occasions.

     
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    Rosie Girl    September 18, 2010   Montana

    I do know a girl who will not let anyone see her without her make-up on, and I think its crazy! People see me all the time without make-up, and I really don't care :)

     
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    DemoDreamer    May 2011   Ohio

    I'm the odd ball who answered "every once in a while" because basically I do wear make-up all the time. But I don't wear much. Basically I feel weird without mascara on. We live together so he obviously sees me after I shower and before bed without makeup; but I usually @ least have mascara on everywhere I go.... I don't know; I guess it's kind of like deoderant. I just put it on no matter what! lol

     
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    ejs4y8    June 20, 2009  

    @Demo, I probably shoulda clicked "every once in awhile" because by the time I get home, we're talking 1-2 hours of no-makeup time before i go to bed, haha. And I, too, wear mascara everywhere...also I fill in my brows with a pencil because they look STUPID otherwise. And naturally if i'm doing the brows i do mascara =P

     
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    pansyshell    October 8, 2010   Central Pa, Wedding in Outer Banks, NC

    I don't wear make-up so FH see's me all the time without it (I bet I've only worn it like 5 times infront of him).

    He actually hates when I wear make-up and makes comments that I look 'weird'. I told him I'll be wearing it on our wedding day so he better not say I look strange!

     
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    NYC.BOS.CHI    August 28, 2010   Massachusetts

    I would like to edit my poll response to "has your man seen you WITH makeup". I'm more on that side I think. Makeup is probably a once a month occurance for me at most.

     
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    Jenn23    April 17, 2010   Philly suburbs

    I wear makeup daily. Don't like my face as much without it-but he sees me mornings/evenings without and he says he loves me without makeup. But I like my face better with, so makeup it is! :) But I can't understand a woman NOT letting her guy see her without makeup. That's a little much I think... And I can't believe those stats. I bet it's the opposite. 12% don't let their guys see them sans makeup.

     
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    galore5    May 29, 2010   chicago

    i am super surprised by the survey! for the first few years i definitely tried to keep it together at all times (ie up at 3am reapply mascara when i stayed at his place), but now we live together and he far more often sees me without makeup than with it! i suppose i should put in more effort, but he doesn't shave on the weekends and i think we enjoy that we can be so comfortable around each other.

     
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    KaitnJust    July 30, 2010   York Maine

    HAHAHA  thats ridiuculous!!  That has to bee for teenagers or something.  I wear makeup when we go out somewhere....or it has been a good day with the kids and I have time to do my makeup!  He actually prefers me with no makeup :D

     
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    Chillmer    May 30, 2010   Milwaukee

    Ha!  All the time.  We live together and I definitely wash my face before bed and lounge around makeup-less on the weekends.

    The only time I ever left the makeup on was when I was casually dating and had bad skin.  If it was clear, I would have been more comfortable bare-faced.

     
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    BudsBride    September 25, 2010   Wisconsin

    Sure I don't go out in public without doing my hair or makeup but that surely doesn't mean my FI has never seen me dolled up. That is plain ridiculous! This reminds me of RHOA - Kim who never takes her makeup or wig off for Big Papa. Give me a break!

     
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    cardigan    January 7, 2011   Austin, TX

    Alllllllll the time! 

     
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    Bride_Colleen    September 4, 2010   Canada

    Well considering we live together I don't really have a choice :P

    I am one of those people who will not leave the house without makeup but every night I have to take mine off and go to bed with him.

    I don't like myself without makeup though and I would probably have to be pretty serious with them for them to see me without it.

     
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    hisbunny    March 13, 2010   ND

    Oh yeah!  When we were dating, I never worked out with makeup on, it was a roll out of bed, brush the teeth, and meet him outside the dorm to go.  I made SURE that he saw me without makeup on, because I wanted to make sure he knew what he was getting!  But, since I don't wear that much on a regular basis, he can't even tell when I have it on... or so he says. :)  Sweetie hubby. :)

     
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    twalila    May 2010   Ohio

    The only makeup I really ever wore was mascara, but after noticing my first few wrinkles about a yr and a half ago I decided to cut out anything that involves any excess rubbing of my eye-area.  When FI proposed I wasn't wearing a drop of makeup (nor had I showered that day...), and he didn't care at all.  I currently put mascara on if we're going someone special on the weekends, otherwise I'm au naturale 24/7.

     
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    Miss Cheeky    May 8, 2010   South Jersey

    I rarely ever wear makeup...I am lazy in the morning! He actually now asks me what the special occasion is if I do wear makeup! He is the kind of guy that likes the natural look anyway so he prefers it. Every guy is different though some like the opposite

     
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    Ms. Caniche    September 18, 2010   Orange County, CA

    I do not wear makeup unless there is a specific reason to put it on. 

     
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    JuneBride_26June2010    June 26, 2010   Indiana (legally married 13-Apr-2009)

    i have a friend who doesn't leave the house WITHOUT any make up on. seriously - every single day she HAS to wear it. (my MOH...) and then there's me - i wear it occasionally - when we go out or whatnot - but i don't wear any makeup on a daily basis - and am allergic to most anyways...so of course i hope I don't break out from the wedding - specially when i'm paying $150 to have it done! :p

     
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    BostonHelen    September 16, 2012  

    The boy does not even notice a difference when I have makeup on. So lately, I've been without makeup especially with my allergies and eczema

     

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