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Do you like a lil spanky with your hanky panky?

posted 7 months ago in Intimacy
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  • poll: Do you like to be spanked?
    Yes. : (135 votes)
    70 %
    No. : (37 votes)
    19 %
    Never tried it. : (21 votes)
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    NJmeetsBX    April 2012   DC

    Friends and I were discussing spanking in the bedroom and in the course of the conversation, it was stated that ALL women like to be spanked.  I think that can't be possible and wanted to take a survey.  So I ask you, bees, do you like to be spanked?Tongue out

     
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    KatyElle      

    Nooooooooooooooooooooooooooo.

     
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    PitBulLover    August 21, 2010  

    yes ;-)

     
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    Running Elley    June 19, 2011   Fresno, CA

    A no from me too!

     
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    Eva Peron    November 2011  

    Never tried it in the context of sex, will put it on my November 12th to do list ;)

    I have been slapped on the but in passing as a flirty joke around the house, which was fine. lol 

     
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    cyndistar3    September 3, 2011   Post Falls ID

    It depends... Sometimes I get in the mood for it but it isn't very common.

     
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    organizedbride11    November 11, 2011   Illinois

    I like it!! Its not for everytime, but if we are in a rough kind of mood I like it alot and it turns me on ;)

     
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    Wonderwoman217       Augusta, Georgia

    Yep.

     
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    Soladylike       Tennessee

    @NJmeetsBX: Yes....hehehe

     
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    yrret107    November 28, 2009   Seattle, WA; Married in West Chester, PA

    It doesn't bother me when he does it but, no, I don't like it. But, I don't hate it either.  I know he likes it so I'll let him do it.

     
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    MrsSl82be    October 24, 2009  

    I guess that depends on what you consider spanking?

     
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    Mrs Sarah McK    October 10, 2010   Harrisburg, PA

    @organizedbride11: Same here. Not always, but when the mood is right, most definitely. 

     
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    KristenGotMarried    May 19, 2012   The Cbus

    Like, bent over his knee and spanked?  No thanks.

    But roughed up a little?  Sure.

     
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    mwitter80    December 11, 2010   Connecticut

    I have in the past, however, my husband won't do it. He's a big guy and doesn't know his own strength sometimes, so it's not worth the risk to him. He's afraid he'll dislocate my hip lol. 

     
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    linguo42    February 27, 2011   Vancouver, B.C.

    Not in the "ooh, you're a baaaaaaad girl and need to be punished" sense, but yes. Gotta rough it up a little now and then :)

     
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    cardus    October 27, 2012   twin cities, MN

    hm.  never tried it.  it's worth a shot.  FI is definitely the "slow and gentle" type overall, but he likes to get kinky once in a while, and there are definitely some nights when i want to dispense with the niceties and get f*cked good and hard, if that makes sense.  might be something we like.

     
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    BayStateBride    September 1, 2012   Cow Hampshire (wedding in MA)

    I actually needed a different poll option.... since I'm the one doing the spanking.  ;)

     
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    Crisark    November 5, 2011   WV

    Yes Ma'am I do Embarassed

     
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    AmeliaBedelia    March 3, 2012   Georgia

    Haha. Sometimes, yeah.

     
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    Aubergold    May 2012   DC metro

    @BayStateBride: oh my lol

     
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    Miss Olive    February 20, 2011   Albany, NY

    hmmm......I've never really tried it.  I do like biting, so I think spanking might be fun, too!  

     
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    zippylef    October 30, 2010   Norfolk, UK

    Yep. I'm not into it all the time, but sometimes you just feel like getting a little freaky. ;)

     
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    tinylittlebird    June 24, 2011   Indiana

    I'm on the fence. I don't mind being spanked during the course of sex (primarily when he's doing his thing from behind) but like... ONCE, maybe twice. 

    I'm not into the idea of being bent over his knee and spanked, or having him do it a lot. That would start to get weird. 

     
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    SparklyBride2011    June 9, 2012   Los Angeles County Area

    I don't hate it, but I wouldn't miss it either haha.

     
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    Mrs.KMM    July 17, 2010   Atlanta, GA (wedding in Indianapolis, IN)

    Yep!  It's not an every time sort of thing, but sometimes we want to make things a little more rough.  ;)

     
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    Jenn23    April 17, 2010   Philly suburbs

    Yep, maybe 2-3 times per month..

     
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    piglet_625    January 1, 1991  

    When I'm tipsy, I really like it....Embarassed

     
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    chesseplease       Newyork

    @piglet_625: lmao ..Wink

     
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    Mrs.ChubbyBunny    October 1, 2011   Texas

    Spanking? YES please! ;) Some see it as degrading, I see it as a Friday night woohoo!

     
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    Mrs.Estep    December 11, 2010   VA

    Mhmmmm.. I'm guilty. lol Innocent 

     
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    kaylee26    January 1, 2014  

    @piglet_625: Ditto. I have to be tipsy to like it.

     
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    panterapeach    April 2011  

    I plead the fifth Cool

     

    By the way I love the title of this thread! 

     
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    Rachael432    July 13, 2012   Chicago, IL

    Yes, lol.

     
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    azafata    January 20, 2012  

    I kinda like it....;)

     
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    Jaxx317    July 17, 2011   Brooklyn, NY/wedding in the Hudson Valley

    not hard, but love the feeling of an ass slap :)

     
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    Tswife4ever    May 28, 2011   California

    Never tried it

     
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    beekiss      

    @Tswife4ever:  Seriously, it adds fun spice. It shouldn't hurt though!

     
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    NJmeetsBX    April 2012   DC

    Thanks bees! Your responses are hilarious!  I can always count on the bees!

     
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    HappilyEverAfter54    June 23, 2012   Central Pennsylvania

    No. I'm not a child... I will smack him back if he ever smacks me.

     

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