(Closed) Do you live with you Fi?

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2012

We do live together but congrats on being so close to your wedding and the start of your marriage!

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

We live together found a great deal on a condo and decided to move in with each other! Congrats on your upcoming nuptials 

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2012

That’s understandable – we’re lucky in that it was only extended family who was dead set against us living together. FMIL wasn’t crazy about it but once she realized that we were talking rings (and even more so once we got engaged) she was much happier. 

I really hope it goes well for you! We’ll probably be moving right around the wedding time as well, since it’s still up in the air where we’ll get into grad school. It’s going to be stressful, but I hope the wedding and the move go smoothly for you two. 

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I’m not living with my FI either.  We decided we wanted to get a brand new place for the two of us to move into when we’re married, that way neither of us ends up moving into the other person’s life, so to speak.  My grand plan is to start a lease on a new apartment on August 1, have the whole week to move most of our stuff to the new place before the wedding on August 7, and then bribe our parents to haul the rest to the new place while we’re on honeymoon (beds and bathroom supplies should be all that’s left at that point).

Moving in together at the same time as getting married is definitely going to be stressful.  Make sure you have everything in boxes that you possibly can!  Only the basic living essentials should be outside of boxes right now.  That’ll make life easier in a week.

Best wishes on your marriage!!  *hugs*

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

@jgoulart:  Sounds like you’re on the ball with the moving plans then!  I’d love to buy a house right now too, but just as you said, it would be too much to tackle along with the wedding, so it will just have to wait until afterward.

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

We’re moving in together in August, we’ll have been together for 2 years at that point. I’m so excited but super nervous about the move, since it will be from Boston to southern California, and I’ve only even visited the west coast once!

Post # 11
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Congrats upcoming nuptials and moving in. I live with my fiance and we have lived together ever since I got prego with my son and he’s almost 3 now.

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

we live together (going on 3 years now), mind you i didnt tell my father (the baptist minister) until about a month before we got engaged (and apparently FH had asked for my hand like right before then so it was recieved a lot better than it would have been) but my mom and sister knew though. we live in the city and its just economical to pay one rent instead of two when we only are at one of the apartments.

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