Post # 1
We’ve been living together for about a year. When I lived alone, my bed was so easy to make in the morning, all i had to do was fold the little piece of the comforter back into the little place where i was sleeping. done! But noooowwww….my fiance completely rumples up the entire bed every night. He MUST have the a/c on freezing, then he bundles the comforter (including my piece) all around his neck, which then becomes sweaty and gross. And he somehow always manages to make his side of the fitted sheet come undone, and kick the flat sheet down to the bottom of the bed, lost under the covers. I just can’t be botherd to make the bed in the morning now….It must be because when he lived at his parents, he had a king size bed in his room like since he was a child!! Now he can’t adapt to a queen…….I think we need a bigger bed!
Anybody else have bad-sleeper fiances/husbands?
Post # 3
Sounds like your describing my bf! haha. And I still make the bed. Not always in the morning, but I have to make it when I get home because I won’t be able to get any homework done with it unmade-it just bothers me so much!
Post # 4
I’m like you, when I lived by myself it was easier, I just had to make up one small area. Now I live with the FI..so.. it’s a different story. He goes to work later than me everyday, and is always in the bed when I leave. lol
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Post # 5
My SO makes his bed, he likes it to look neat. me, on the other hand, like leave it a mess. The only time I make my bed is when I’m visiting my father, he has a very clean and proper house so i feel obligated to leave it nice.
Post # 6
Yes, but I have a solution for a blanket theif- my dog sleeps at my feet, so he acts as a counter weight and helps me keep my blankets. I really missed my dog for that reason when we were staying at the FIL’s house recently.
And yes, I have to straighten out the bed before getting back in the next night cause it is a disaster zone after he vacates the bed.
Post # 7
I totally don’t make the bed. And I’m the one who wrecks it! Soooooo yeah.
Post # 8
3 factors to my unmade bed
1. FI still sleeping when I leave at 6am
2. I’m going back in it, so it doesn’t matter
3. Yeah…I just don’t really feel like it.
Post # 9
lol @lemondrop my dachshund sleeps on the bed too! but she HAS to be UNDER the cover so she doesn’t really help with the counter-weight thing! she starts out at the foot and by morning she’s usually in the middle peaking her head out the top adding to the jumble!!
Post # 10
OMG, I completely understand! If I sleep in the bed by myself I can simply fold up the comforter on the side I was sleeping on, with FI that is impossible! The sheets and comforter are all over the bed and he is always pulling the sheets (fitted and flat) from under the mattress. I usually get out of the bed first so the bed is usually unmade because Fi does not make the bed
Post # 11
My house is small, so if I don’t make my bed, it makes me feel like my whole house is messy. (Very similar to living in a dorm room – I never made my bed until college). No bedroom door to ‘shut out’ the mess!
Post # 12
I only make the bed when I know company is coming!
Post # 13
On the weekends, yes. During the week, da’ hubs is still sleeping in it when I leave, so I make it when I get home, or at least before I go to bed. I can’t go to bed in an unmade bed. Just can’t.
Post # 14
My alarm goes off at 4:30 am, my FI doesn’t get up until 7 am, so I have the perfect excuse to not make the bed. He cannot leave the house with an unmade bed. It’s the perfect situation.
Post # 15
Sounds like my SO! We don’t live together, but when he stays over, it’s like a bomb went off! I can sleep in my bed alone and fold it back. But with him, the comforter ends up on the bed and the flat sheet is at the bottom of the bed! I have to do SO much to make it back up.
I thought it was just him being a slob with the bed!
Post # 16
We are both terrible about making the bed and we have a double bed. It is terrible. All I want in the world is a King bed but that would necessitate an apartment large enough to put a King in. Sigh.