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Do you miss "your wedding"?

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    msduck    August 2009  

    Everytime I watch our wedding video, which has been 5 times since our wedding 4 months ago, I get kinda sad, like aww I missed that or I wish I could relive the day over again.

     
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    naangel55    June 20, 2009   Long Beach, CA

    I miss it!  I dont have a wedding video but we do have a video of our ceremony that weve watched a couple times.  I wish we could have the wedding again!  And not to change anything but it was just so great :)

     
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    Bridebella    October 17, 2009   Knoxville, TN

    Yep. Totally miss it! Why must one day go by sooo fast!?

     
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    Halloween    October 31, 2009   Los Angeles

    YES!

    I would like to go back as a guest so I could:

    1.) Hear our ceremony singers one more time and

    2.) Have a full size piece of our main wedding cake.  I don't remember what it tastes like but we heard it was good. Frown

     
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    completelyrandomsally    November 7, 2009   Kansas City, MO

    Yes! I wish I could go through that day one more time.

     
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    contrarymary    October 17, 2009   Placentia, CA

    yes! it went by tooo fast and i got tired way too quickly! dh and me should've had a red bull each!

     
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    tvilase    11/28/09   Los Angeles

    I was just telling my MOH that I miss the wedding! Sigh, it was such a wonderful day and I just wish I could experience it all over again.

     
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    spraguebride    August 8, 2009   Bothell, WA

    Yes

    I think this is that post wedding depression everyone was talking about.

    I miss my wedding too

     
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    Miss Bravo    October 31, 2009   LA

    I do!  The wedding day was the most perfect day!!  Miraculously, everything went just as I had hoped!  I miss it every time I look at the photos-which is ALL THE TIME! :)

     
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    lallison    August 2009  

    I really miss my wedding! It's hard because you put so much of yourself into this day, and it finally comes and it's absolutely wonderful!! and then it's over....and you feel a little lost! I know I did...I still collect wedding ideas to this day..because I love them. my eyes are trained to pick up on things that are "pool and raspberry" (our wedding colors). I can't seem to get over wedding planning!

     
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    I wouldn't say I miss it per se BUT I am obsessed with it!  I just keep looking at the pictures and loving how everything turned out... and as time passes all the little details that I noticed on the wedding day itself of things that went wrong slowly fade away... and all I remember is how fabulous it all was!!  I was never one of those girls who dreamed of my wedding day ...until it actually happened!!! now I can't stop!!

     
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    Blondiebee    October 9, 2009  

    I miss my wedding sooo much! It was the best day of my life. <3 I have watched the video a few times and love how I can relive it anytime I want. It was absolutely perfect. I get teary eyed everytime I watch it. I cant wait to give everyone framed family photo's of my wedding for xmas!

     
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    amariem25    October 2009  

    I knew the night of the wedding that I was going to miss it.  When my new husband and I walked to our hotel that night I turned and said to him "can we do it all over again?  That was the best day ever and I'm sad it went by so fast."

     
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    MissAsB    June 6, 2009   Married in CO, Living in AL

    I wish I could go back so that I could actually hear the music and eat an entire piece of cake!  And eat some of the other food things.  They never asked us if we wanted the leftovers to be packed up.

     
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    amariem25    October 2009  

    @missasb - we actually had told our caterer ahead of time to pack up our meals (after we attempted to eat them) for us as leftovers.  I knew I wouldn't be able to eat all of mine in that dress and I didn't want it to just get thrown away after I paid all that money for it.  So yeah, kind of weird, but my husband and I left the reception carrying a styrofoam box of my leftover meal and a cardboard box of our leftover top tier of cake.  The meal didn't actually taste that great the next day, but the cake was still delicious two weeks later (we had froze some of it until we got back from our honeymoon).

     
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    MissAsB    June 6, 2009   Married in CO, Living in AL

    @amariem: I just sort of forgot to ask for the leftovers!  And I didn't realize that we had an entire tier of the cake left over because the bakery wasn't supposed to do that and it was a different flavor, which I didn't like as much as the regular part of the cake that I barely got to taste!

     
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    mouse    September 11, 2009   Austin, TX

    Yes, but I don't miss the stress.  If only I could go back and relive only the wedding itself, none of the lead-up.

     
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    missomally    July 11, 2009   Missouri

    Oh my gosh, YES YES YES!  I want to go back and do it all over again.  It went by so fast.  It was wonderful and fun and amazing.  I'm definitely sad it's over.  Guess it's about time to think about doing recaps on my blog.

     
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    FutureMrsBLT    September 12, 2009   Washington, DC

    Not in a million years!! It's not that I did not enjoy the wedding--it was actually quite perfect. But I don't miss the stress and anxiety that I felt leading up to it and I'm much happier being a wife and having the wedding be a very happy memory!

     
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    star    October 11, 2009   New York, NY!

    Yes, I wish I could relive just that day over and over, but like Mouse said, I'm not in a hurry to go back to all the stress and craziness of the planning!

     
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    kaybee    December 5, 2009   Oklahoma City

    I want another chance to wear my wedding dress!  The night of the wedding is just a blur, everything seemed to happen so fast I would love to relive it...

     
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    L breezy    10/03/09   Chicago

    Our wedding went by way too fast!  I want another one!  Hahaha

     
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    Laylabelle    November 7, 2009  

    Yes!! I want to do it all over again (with some minor changes) and enjoy it more this time around! I don't have our video back yet, so I just have to try to remember stuff.

     
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    msduck    August 2009  

    i finally finished printing my wedding pictures and putting them into albums. sounds easy but omg took forever to get it just right!

     
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    girliegirl    Oct 2009   Brooklyn, NY

    I miss it so much too and reading about all of you missing it makes me miss it even more.  I wish I could relive it again.  This also makes me feel bad for the brides who never got to have a wedding.  I think everyone should be able to have that one special day.

     
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    Miss Snowflake    August 8, 2009   Columbia, MO

    Strangely, I don't really miss the day or want to relive it. I absolutely agree with everyone, it was THE BEST day of my life and I wouldn't change a single thing about it for anything. But I love being a wife, and I look forward to every tomorrow. I feel like we have many more (and much better) days ahead of us!!

     
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    lifeinshutterclicks    August 10, 2009   San Francisco, CA

    I wish i could have a wedding day again. I planned my whole wedding and was so tired by the end of it.

     
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    Mrs. DG    July 18, 2009   Seattle/Tahoe

    I don't miss it, but I do miss the buzz that I felt on that day!  We worked really hard and I was fairly exhausted when we pulled the whole thing off :)

     
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    viscomda    October 24, 2009  

    I agree with ppl.  I don't miss the planning and some of the stress leading up to the day of.  However, it was one of the best days of my life.  H and I were dancing to the last song and I teared up telling him I didn't want it to end.  After 3 months, I can finally say I no longer have the post wedding blues.

     
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    otb    December 31, 2009   Chicago, IL

    I miss planning my wedding so much, I am planning a baby shower for my sister in law that's going to be the kick ass'est baby shower ever!  lol!

     
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    fuschiasparkles    November 4, 2011   FL

    Wow so this happens to alot of women? One of my good friends was sooo sad after her wedding last year! She said she felt "lost" b/c she had been used to being soo busy with planning and everything and then it was over just like *THAT!*

     

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