Post # 1
The other day we were having a nice dinner and I guess I must have brought up my friend’s best friend for some reason and H blurted out “She’s hot.” Lol. I kept giving him the face and he backtracked saying, “well, she’s okay…um, she’s just kind of pretty.”I wanted to hit him on the head with an inflatable hammer.
>.< I do find people attractive here and there but I don’t really feel comfortable talking about it.
The lady mentioned and I have hung out a few times with our mutual friend and she is really nice and to her credit she is kind of pretty and very much in shape. But I probably won’t go out of my way to hang out with her (and her fiance).
Post # 3
We don’t talk about other women and men that we know in front of each other like that. I think the last guy my husband heard me call attractive (or other word I used) was Leonardo Dicaprio.
Post # 4
@tmsing: I talk about hot celebrit crushes I have but not people we know. He doesn’t mention anything abou anyone bein attractive
Post # 5
No. We joke about celebrity crushes but that is about it. I realize its natural to find people attractive, but I would never say one of my DH’s friend is hot. And he wouldnt do that to me either.
Post # 6
My DH sometimes points out strangers which I don’t really like but I guess at least it’s someone I don’t know. If it were someone I knew and hung out with I would feel a bit uncomfortable.
Post # 7
No, we don’t. We both find it rude.
Post # 8
He doesn’t, and I don’t talk about other guys being hot… I’m more like, “Honey, isn’t SHE hot?!” Lol…
Then he gets all flushed & asks me if I’m really straight lol!
Post # 9
- Wedding: June 2013 - Upstate NY
@Rubbs: Me too! I STARE so bad! I tell him it’s not a sexual thing, it’s a woman-comparing thing haha! He gets so embarrassed. Sometimes I wear sunglasses so I can really check people out. Terrible.
I tell him celebrity crushes- Robert Downey Jr, Alex Pettyfer, yummmm.
Post # 10
@lealorali: Yes!! It really is comparing. I just get so curious as to what else he finds attractive in women. I saw only a picture of 1 of his ex’s and she looked nothing like me!
Post # 11
We don’t normally– especially when it is people we know. That can make things really awkward. Sometimes we talk about the attractiveness of others (usually celebs), but in a detached, intellectual kind of way. Not in a blurting out randomly “she’s hot” kind of way.
Post # 12
Strangers and celebrities, yes… but not close friends/people we hang out with. I think that would take it from jokey and fun to awkward and weird.
Post # 13
We do, but it’s always in the context of celebrities (or in last night’s case, the Bachelorette).
Post # 14
@MrsPanda99: Yeah, it was pretty rude >.< He doesn’t screen himself before he talks sometimes.
Post # 15
We talk about everything so occasionally it would come up that we think some so and so is attractive. Neither one of us have any issues with that, just another objective discussion.
Post # 16
@Regina Phalange: Exactly.
I talk about other girls being hot, and he either agrees or disagrees. Mostly celebs, but sometimes people watching brings forth certain conversations. He’ll sometimes mention what another guy is wearing or whatever that he likes.
I wouldn’t openly state “He’s HOT!” about one of FH’s friends because…that’s just…ouch. And he wouldn’t do that either because, if this were the case, he’s more than welcome to be with that person then.