Do you openly talk about who you find attractive?

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

We don’t talk about other women and men that we know in front of each other like that. I think the last guy my husband heard me call attractive (or other word I used) was Leonardo Dicaprio. 

Post # 4
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Sugar bee

@tmsing:  I talk about hot celebrit crushes I have but not people we know. He doesn’t mention anything abou anyone bein attractive

Post # 5
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Honey bee

No. We joke about celebrity crushes but that is about it. I realize its natural to find people attractive, but I would never say one of my DH’s friend is hot. And he wouldnt do that to me either.

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

My DH sometimes points out strangers which I don’t really like but I guess at least it’s someone I don’t know. If it were someone I knew and hung out with I would feel a bit uncomfortable.

Post # 7
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Buzzing Beekeeper

No, we don’t. We both find it rude.

Post # 8
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

He doesn’t, and I don’t talk about other guys being hot… I’m more like, “Honey, isn’t SHE hot?!” Lol…

Then he gets all flushed & asks me if I’m really straight lol!

Post # 9
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2013 - Upstate NY

@Rubbs:  Me too! I STARE so bad! I tell him it’s not a sexual thing, it’s a woman-comparing thing haha! He gets so embarrassed. Sometimes I wear sunglasses so I can really check people out. Terrible.

I tell him celebrity crushes- Robert Downey Jr, Alex Pettyfer, yummmm.

Post # 10
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

@lealorali:  Yes!! It really is comparing. I just get so curious as to what else he finds attractive in women. I saw only a picture of 1 of his ex’s and she looked nothing like me! 

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2009

We don’t normally– especially when it is people we know.  That can make things really awkward.  Sometimes we talk about the attractiveness of others (usually celebs), but in a detached, intellectual kind of way.  Not in a blurting out randomly “she’s hot” kind of way. 

Post # 12
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

Strangers and celebrities, yes… but not close friends/people we hang out with. I think that would take it from jokey and fun to awkward and weird.

Post # 13
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

We do, but it’s always in the context of celebrities (or in last night’s case, the Bachelorette).

Post # 15
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Busy bee

We talk about everything so occasionally it would come up that we think some so and so is attractive.  Neither one of us have any issues with that, just another objective discussion.

Post # 16
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@Regina Phalange:  Exactly. 

I talk about other girls being hot, and he either agrees or disagrees. Mostly celebs, but sometimes people watching brings forth certain conversations. He’ll sometimes mention what another guy is wearing or whatever that he likes.

I wouldn’t openly state “He’s HOT!” about one of FH’s friends because…that’s just…ouch. And he wouldn’t do that either because, if this were the case, he’s more than welcome to be with that person then. 

 

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