Do you pee with the door open?

posted 3 years ago in The Lounge
  • poll: Do you pee with the door open?
    Yes, always : (5 votes)
    3 %
    Yes, but only with my SO, I close it when guests are over : (95 votes)
    57 %
    No, never : (53 votes)
    32 %
    Other (explain below) : (14 votes)
    8 %
  • Post # 2
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    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: June 2016

    Ew no no no. I’ll pee if he’s in the shower (we only have one bathroom, and I’ll go in there usually only if I can’t hold it until he gets out) but never in front of him If that makes sense? Haha and def never in front of guests

    Post # 3
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    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    Some things are better kept private.

    Post # 4
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    8071 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2015

    No way! I had to get over running the water so he couldnt hear. 

    Post # 5
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    2166 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    I usually close it.  I had a roommate who peed with the door open though, so it doesn’t really phase me, and if I’m with very specific girlfriends (and when alcohol may or may not be involved…) I don’t mind going if the door is open.  But I like to keep some mystery alive between my husband and I!  🙂

    Post # 6
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    27 posts
    Newbee
    • Wedding: May 2015

    With my fiance -door open, heck I’ll pee while he’s in there brushing his teeth (and he does the same). Tthis stemmed from necessity as we only have one bathroom and both get up and get ready at the same time.

    With anyone else, door closed.

    Post # 7
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    305 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2014

    Never.  And I actually turn the water on so he can’t hear me….even in the middle of the night.  We are pretty private about any bodily functions….I’ve heard him fart MAYBE 5 times and I will laugh and call him out on it…and he DENIES IT.  Which makes me laugh even harder.

    Post # 8
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    552 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    I pee with the door open at my parents house, my BFFs house and at both FI and I’s houses. I guess we’re just open people, my family all pee with the door open too. I don’t think it’s gross at all, it’s just a normal bodily function. My BFF shared a tiny dorm room, two twin beds with about 4 feet in between. After a year of that peeing in front of eachother is no big deal. And FI and I just aren’t the type of people who are worried about mystery, we’re both human and aren’t worried about keeping anything private. He likes to come into the bathroom and chat with me, regardless of what I’m doing, and I don’t mind one bit, and will do the same with him. It’s definitely a comfort level thing, although for me it’s more about the comfort level of the people around me, I only leave the door open with my BFF because I know it doesn’t make her uncomfortable. I would be fine with the door open with any of my friends, but I’m not sure if they’d be comfortable with it so I err on the side of caution.

    Post # 9
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    I pee with the door open whenever I feel like it with FI around…sometimes I feel like closing the door, whatever. I have friends who I’m comfortable with and we can share a restroom in public or at home, but they are the few friends who I’ve known since we were young girls.

    Post # 10
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    2915 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    very rarely, usually only if i really have to go. my husband, on the other had, has no problem with it.

    Post # 11
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    326 posts
    Helper bee

    Lol I was really close with my friends and college roomies…. I guess I lost the care for peeing privacy, I just don’t care if the door is open. 

    Post # 12
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    DH and I always leave the door open at home. We will do anything in front of the other, there is no mystery in our relationship and it doesn’t bother us. It hasn’t killed the romance at all.

    Post # 13
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: November 2000

    a_day_at_the_fair:  Nope. It’s not about embarassment or discomfort. I’ve gone on hitchiking holidays where the only option can be peeing by the side of the road and you just risk that cars are coming. It’s more like, we share everything else. We both deserve privacy in this area. Sharing “everything” doesn’t mean you’re any closer. 

    Post # 14
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    335 posts
    Helper bee

    Both FI and I have sometimes left it open when pee but that’s it. It’s just a thing – I did it initially to train him to put the toilet seat down when he was done – that if he didn’t I would pee with the door open. Now it’s just if it happens it happens but we don’t purposely do or think about it. But that’s just with him and I everywhere and everyone else is closed. 

    Post # 15
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: January 2014

    I’ve peed when people have been in the same bathroom as me, so having the door open certainly isn’t an issue. I really don’t care when it’s in front of DH or my three best friends. Except for those few, I’d close the door always. 

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