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    Ember78    December 15, 2012  

    Whether that's all that some people you know choose to talk about or whatever the case may be.

     

     
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    HappilyEverAfter54    June 23, 2012   Central Pennsylvania

    Yeah I pretty much don't watch the news at all... so... I stay away from political chats.

     
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    atalante    May 19, 2012  

    I follow politics... because I vote...

     
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    MissEdamame    July 2009  

    I feel like too many people have fought in the past for my right to vote. I follow candidates because I feel like it is my responsibility to be an informed voter.

     
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    No I don't refuse to follow politics. It's my job as a citizen to be aware of what's going on in the political arena. It pisses me off when people bitch and moan about politicians yet refuse to educate themselves. That said, I do try to mostly avoid politics as a conversation topic because it just never leads anywhere productive. I don't even share who I'm voting for.

     
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    elizabeth2004    July 14, 2012   Ann Arbor, MI

    I don't refuse, but it's not a big interest. I know it's important and I do care, especially for elections, but every day I'm not that into it.

     
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    amnystik    April 9, 2011   Texas

    I don't follow it closely as in watching debates or such b/c I know the basic for/against of the primary canidates but also don't "refuse to follow" politics b/c it's my JOB (yes JOB) to vote. Knowing where my stance on these issues I cast my vote accordingly.

     
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    CanadianMermaid    December 2012  

    @KatyElle: this . that. and the other.

     
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    zippylef    October 30, 2010   Norfolk, UK

    I mean... personally, I think that if you don't vote then you don't have a right to complain about the government. I follow politics because I like to be an informed voter.

    I also follow what is going on in the government because it directly effects me.

    That being said, I don't like to discuss my political leanings with people. Like my mom always said, you should never discuss politics or religion because it never leads anywhere good.

     
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    Wonderstruck    September 18, 2011   Detroit, MI

    @KatyElle:

    @zippylef:

    Completely agree with you two!

     
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    finnaroo    August 7, 2010   DC (living in nyc now)

    I don't follow politics in that I don't follow the play-by-play too closely because it takes too much energy and makes me frustrated, except close to elections (I always vote). I do however care very, very deeply about policy, which is somewhat different than politics in that it's about the deeper issues rather than the drama that is displayed in the media or daily play-by-play. that distinction prob doesn't mean too much to most people, but it does to me. I lived in DC for a long time and worked in the policy world, but I can't name all the members of Congress, so yeah, I don't "follow" politics in the same way a lot of people I know do! It's hard not to talk politics or policy when it's so much of what you do, but we have some close friends who we know have very different beliefs, and I refuse to talk with them about it at all just because we aren't going to "convert" each other and it's just too contentious. And these are dear, dear friends, ie, our best man and his fiance, but we just don't get into it.

     
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    basketballwifetobe    April 28, 2012   Connecticut

    @KatyElle: Yup!

     
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    No, I don't refuse to follow politics because it is my right as an American to be active in them.  I take pride in keeping myself knowledgable on such matters.  Why?  Because when it comes time to complain, I A) I know what I'm talking about and don't sound like an idiot, and B) I have every right to complain because I voted.

     
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    2ndtime    April 16, 2011  

    I would never refuse to follow politcs.  As pp's have stated it is our responsibility as citizens to know what is going on.  I am a politics JUNKIE now.  I watch the news shows all evening long.  But when I was younger I didn't care so much.  I was carefree, didn't own anything and just having fun.  I think as things affect you more you become more interested. When I was in my twenties the economy was much better and life was overall pretty good.  Now, my coworkers are getting laid off left and right, I'm upside down in my mortgage, I'm a union member who remembers what working conditions were like 20 years ago, I don't know how I'm going to afford to send my two kids to college, the price of everything is sky high, there are local and national laws and injustices that effect me every day, etc., etc., etc. Obviously I'm more affected therefore I am more interested.  

    As far as conversations go, I try to avoid them when I feel others don't share my political views.  I'm not looking for a battle (unlike DH).  I just like to know what's going on so I can know which way to vote.  

     
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    galloway111    June 16, 2012   WI

    @Ember78: I think it's extremely important to at least be informed on current political issues enough to vote according to your beliefs, even if you don't care much for politics. If you truly refuse to follow politics I honestly hope you don't vote. And I think that anyone who doesn't vote really shouldn't complain about any politcal choices being made (unless they had a REALLY good reason not to vote).

    I'm a history and political science major so I love knowing what's going on and discussing politics, but I hate getting into a debate with someone who is convinced they are right. I like the discussion part, not someone telling me I'm wrong, the great thing about politics is diversity of opinions and that there's no one right answer.

     
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    shyviolette    October 2012  

    I follow them because I think it's important to be informed about what's going on in the world and to develop your OWN opinions and thoughts about them. I think it's also beneficial to have civil discussions with people about them so that you can understand what other people think about the same things. I also vote, and I don't think people should be voting if they don't have a clue what's actually going on. 

    I think there are just far too many people today who either don't pay any attention to issues, or just take what they hear at face value and don't think critically about it, which in my opinion is a contributing factor to why some things are really terrible in this country. 

    Having said that, I admit I get exhausted reading about all of the crazy BS happening in politics and the atrocities happening here and around the world. It can be depressing and disheartening, but it's still important. Sometimes I take a break from reading the news for a couple of days so I can regenerate... haha. 

     
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    delirium.megans    April 30, 2011   CT

    I don't refuse to follow it... I follow politics and am very well versed on what is happening.  However, I will not get into discussions about it.  I feel like many people are trained to try to convince you that their way of thinking is correct, instead of just having friendly debate.  And I can't stand that, and therefore do not discuss politics with family, friends or colleagues.

     
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    Knubbsy-Wubbsy    July 30, 2011   Central Texas

    I try not to follow the mudslinging but I feel that since I am affected by what happens in politics I should know who is in office, the major legislation, etc.

     
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    UpstateCait    October 7, 2011   Upstate, NY

    Like some of the PP's, I don't think anyone has the right to complain about the government if they're not willing to do anything to change it. I don't follow politics to the point where I know everything about each candidate but I do know enough to form an opinion and select the best person for the job.

    When we were growing up my best friends dad never voted but he always had an opinion. It just didn't make any sense that he would bitch about the ways things were being run but he was too lazy to have his own voice and help to change it. When we were probably 15 or 16 I made the mistake of asking him why he didn't vote and he got majorly pissy. I don't even remember ever getting an answer.

     
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    Earlybride    October 6, 2012  

    I follow enough to be informed, but not enough where it drives me up the wall. Too much of anything is bad.

     
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    jjmomma    March 11, 2011  

    I follow it because of the reasons mentioned above but also b/c DH is very interested.  I don't discuss it with anyone but him, though.

     
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    Carnival_Bride    December 2012   Mid-Atlantic

    I follow stories on public policy decisions, but I try to stray away from the political stories. Unfortunately, it's not easy to ignore the latter because I live in the "first in the nation primary" state.

     
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    MissEdamame    July 2009  

    I'm so proud of all of you Bees who also think voting and being an active, involved citizen are so important. The suffragists who fought hard for the rights of women voters would be pleased :)

    Just because you don't openly discuss your political leanings doesn't mean you shouldn't follow policies and legislation being debated on, as well as fully understanding the platform candidates are running on.

     
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    PitBulLover    August 21, 2010  

    I don't refuse to follow politics, but I do refuse to talk about it. It's pretty hard in my area though. Being near DC, everyone wants to talk politics all the time, but I do my best to avoid it.

     
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    hisgoosiegirl    June 18, 2011  

    I keep up with what's going on. I don't watch CNN 24-7 but I do pay attention. Too many people fought and died to give us that right to not be informed and vote.

    I live in a state where some voters are now tring to recall the Govenor after he was able to pass a bill that was unpopular with certain groups. People b*tch and complain that they didn't really want him and he wasn't 'truly' elected because only 33% of the eligible electorate voted. Drives me batty that they didn't go out and vote then, so now they complain and want a do-over.

     
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    ashleyyyg    August 2012  

    This may offend some haha. Well I don't vote and I don't follow politics. I don't feel that presidents nowadays know what the working class, lower class, or middle class citizens want. How about let people who had to struggle through their lives run for president or those who know what it is like to be in those situations and to be normal? People who can't afford medical care or those who are losing social security, etc? People who are running for presidency generally have the money and the funds somehow to run and are not modern day Joe Schmo nextdoor. They usually make promises they can't keep to win over voters and then turn around and never follow through with their promises.

     

    Just my point of view. 

    After reading books on our history....and it's sad cause much of what they wanted for the country is not being followed today. Much is dictated by the rich and corporations. 

     
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    Rachael432    July 13, 2012   Chicago, IL

    I think ignoring politics is incredibly naive and incredibly dangerous. If you don't want to discuss it 24/7, that's one thing, but not following it at all and having a leg up on what is going on is just plain ignorant.

     
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    LibbyLoo    June 1, 2013   Ontario, Canada

    @Rachael432: Agreed - choosing not to participate in political conversations is one thing (my parents always taught me to avoid talking politics and religion in mixed company - plus I'm far too passionate about my beliefs to NOT get into fights with people when I get riled up) but to refuse to educate yourself and at least have a basic understanding of what is going on in your country and the world around you is just irresponsible and lazy. Don't even get me started on people who don't vote...

    Pick up a newspaper once a week and read the front section at the very least - doesn't take that much time out of your life and gives you at least a basic idea of what is going on in the world around you. You are a resident and a citizen of the Earth - in my opinion, you have a level of responsibility to understand and be aware of what is going on. Sticking your head in the sand doesn't make the problems go away.

     
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    zippylef    October 30, 2010   Norfolk, UK

    @ashleyyyg: Honestly, we vote for our president. Yes, we have a representative democracy and technically the president is elected on an electoral vote, but the electoral college generally sides with the popular vote of their state. I know that I vote in hopes that the next person will do better. I believe that the masses of the US have been complacent for too long and have chosen not to take an active role in their government and that is why our country is where it is right now. It sounds cheesy to say so, but votes do count. The people we elect into office are the one who make the laws that effect our lives. The only way to effect a change is to elect in the right people. That requires voting.

    Damn, I just broke my own rule against talking politics.

     
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    Elolith    February 18, 2016  

    I follow some politics because I vote back home. But I try to stay away from conversations/discussions regarding this. It's such a topic that always get people heated and what not. I keep it to myself and it's going great so far.

     
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    Jenniphyr    February 2, 2013   Alberta, Canada

    I follow (as in, read every article/watch every video I see) the issues close to my heart (healthcare, women's health, sex ed, education funding, social programs, etc.), but I don't follow every little thing. I do vote, though, and I ensure that I make an informed choice.

    I also turn off the TV if I see an attack ad. Those things are dumb.

     
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    galloway111    June 16, 2012   WI

    @ashleyyyg: You do realize you don't have to vote Republican or Democrat? There are independent parties. You can also write someone in- Mickey Mouse gets a lot of votes every election. You say that the President doesn't know what people want- but with only 50% of the population even voting in the first place, and so many people with the logic that there's no point, we can't have a President that represents everyone. Besides, there will always be people who disagree, politicians can't please everyone.

     
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    hisgoosiegirl    June 18, 2011  

    @ashleyyyg: You should read up on recent events in countries like Syria, Egypt, Tunisia, and Libya. Those countries have leaders who really don't care about their citizens - and those citizens are not left with peaceful options to voice their dissatisfaction (ie. voting, peaceful protesting) that we in the United States and other countries (Canada, UK, and Australia to name a few) are able to enjoy.

     

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