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Do you remember your first kiss with BF / FI / DH?

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    Lorienne    January 1, 2016   Los Angeles, CA

    How long after you started dating was the kiss?

    Was it a memorable, knock-your-socks off kind of kiss, or just a normal kiss?

    Did you have any inkling at the time that you'd be kissing each other on your wedding day?

     
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    Erindesmar    October 17, 2009   Boston, MA

    On the couch in the basement of my parents house one special summer night at age 20.  He was shy so I had to kiss him first.  The kiss was memorable, tee hee!  We were not officially dating....we had hung out a few times in a group and it was our first time alone together.

    I knew (and had known since I was a sophomore in HS) that there was something special between us.  Within two weeks of dating, we knew we would get married ; )

     
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    Soon2BeMrsC    March 20, 2010   Wine Country

    It was our second date.

    It was adorable because he was so shy about it, but it was really just a simple kiss.

    I had no idea he would be the man I marry.  I wasn't even thinking about it at the time, but I love that new song by Darius Rucker, "History in the Making."  It talks about having your last first kiss.  It such a neat thought, I widh I'd had it then!

     
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    scissors    June 19, 2010   Atlanta, Ga

    It was a New Year's Eve kiss, and we had just met about 2 hours before. I'd asked my friend to ask him if he'd be my NYE kiss (lol... how third grade), and so, well, he did. And we've been together ever since.

    It was sweet, not pushy or aggressive, but just right. And very sparky. :p

     
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    MrsDibs    April 16, 2010   Columbus, OH

    Our first date was our first kiss. Now our first date lasted 12 hours (noon to midnight), so I like to say that it was really three dates packed into one day. It was memorable and amazing, totally rocked both our socks off. When I got home from the date I told my roommate I thought that he might be the one. Looks like I was right ;-)

     
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    surkim    September 2, 2012  

    Well we totally did the smooch before we were "official"...  I wasn't feeling well, and he went in for the smooch, and the next day he wasn't feeling all that hot.

    I felt pretty guilty, so I brought him some DayQuil to our final that we had the following Monday.

     
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    cardigan    January 7, 2011   Austin, TX

    It was about 2 weeks after we started "officially" dating - it was my first kiss, which is probably why we waited so long, lol. It was on my parent's couch right after we finished watching "Charlie and the Chocolate Factory" (haha, it's one of my favorites!!!). 

    He got chills afterwards and to this day claims it was one of our best kisses ever! Smile

     
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    alicia-s    5/29/2010  

    under the snow flakes of Salt Lake City airport.  It was perfect! 

    I even grabbed his hand and put it to my chest so he could feel how hard my heart was beating

     
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    LittleOctopus    October 10, 2010   Raleigh, NC

    This is a great thread!  We'd been seeing each other for a few days, and he had spent the afternoon hanging out at my apartment.  I walked him to the door when he was leaving, and we both kind of awkwardly said goodbye.  I turned my back and thought how dumb this was, that I really wanted to kiss him.  So I spun around and grabbed his arm and laid a big smacker on him, right in our dorm quad.  Funny thing is, he said he was spinning around the same time to kiss me too, I just beat him to the punch.

    Cute stories, everyone!

     
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    SaraRocks    October 16, 2010   Baltimore, MD

    Aww! These are super cute! I was at a party at my FI apartment. We had been hanging out a couple days, but just friend stuff. We had both had a couple of drinks and I followed him into his room when he went to grab something and I just kissed him. He asked me to be his girlfriend later that night. :)

     
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    tessabella76    September 12, 2009   Ohio

    We kissed on our 3rd date (best date ever. I knew then we had something special). It was in his dads truck-his dad had fallen off a ladder and wasn't allowed to drive but would sneak out so my husband "borrowed" the truck for a couple of weeks. It was about 2:30 am and it was snowing. Very romantic! I don't think I necessarily knew we would be married but I knew he was different and what we were together was different than anything I'd ever felt before.

     
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    His Barista    September 4, 2010   Spokane, WA

    We'd been dating about 3 weeks, and I was visiting his place for the first time (we were LD). He was showing me the house. Right there on the stairs, I planted one on him. lol. It was amazing.

     
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    mouse    September 11, 2009   Austin, TX

    Oh yes, I definitely remember it.  It was amazing, left me wanting more.  We kissed on the first night we met, after hanging out and talking all night.  We broke all the "rules" about what not to talk about on the first date:  politics, religion, you name it.  Of course I had no idea that we'd be getting married, I just hoped he'd call me!

     
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    hergreenapples    October 23, 2010   Ontario, Canada

    Yes! We just told out minister this story when we met with him to discuss the wedding this past Sunday.

    It was at the end of our second date. It was early December and we'd just held hands while walking through the snowy park that was filled with beautiful Christmas lights. We got to my front porch and we had this incredible kiss. It was like everything else in the world stopped for a few minutes. 

     
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    Lillindy    September 2008   Bay Area, CA

    Our first kiss was before we were officially dating and it was PERFECT!  I knew for a fact after that he would be the man I would marry, and I was right!

     
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    jamie80218    7/10/10   Denver, CO

    Ours was in an alley outside of a coffee shop. If I knew that it was my last first kiss, i would have smooched him much earlier in the night at a better location. But, that little smack on the lips made my heart flutter.

     
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    Beav1279    December 27, 2009   Austin, TX

    Our first kiss was at the end of our first date.. I don't usually kiss on the first date, but he was too damn sexy to turn down! lol

    It was an amazing kiss and I couldn't wait until the next one. But I never in a million years thought I'd be marrying him 2.5 years later.. but I'm so happy that I am!!

     
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    cannotwait    February 1, 2009   TX

    um, it took us a bit, since we worked together and were friends for months before dating...is it bad to admit that I was buzzed and it was in my bed...sounds really trashy, but honestly it was sweet and more innocent than it sounds!  I had no idea so many other 'firsts' would be with him, but he was worth the wait!

     
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    thismustbetheplace    May 28, 2011   Rochester, NY; wedding in Maine

    YES!  Our first kiss didn't come until two weeks of hanging out/watching movies EVERY NIGHT after we met.  And this is college, people.  20-somethings in college don't often just "hangout" in each others dorm rooms every night without there being more going on.  He honestly made me feel like a 5th grader with a crush, I was so nervous/awkward around him.  And I was a senior (he was only a sophomore)!!

    Our first kiss was a goodnight kiss in his dorm room after watching a particularly good episode of 24.  Romantic moodlighting/christmas lights: Check.  Roommate gone out to get a drink from the vending machine: Check.  Awkward goodnight hug segue into fantastically amazing first smooch: Checkkkk.  Afterwords I shut the door behind me and honestly did a happy dance in the hallway.  He admitted later that he watched me do it through the peep hole.  :) We've been together ever since. 

     
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    QueenBecca037    04.05.09   Atlanta, GA

    Of course I remember our first kiss :)  We were friends before we started dating, we'd met in law school.  We spent summer after our first year studying abroad in Spain with two other people from our school  

    My husband was the last one to arrive in town, and I'd been drinking red wine all day to celebrate my arrival in a new country.  He met up with us at the Irish Pub beneath his apartment, and when the other two classmates left us alone for a minute, I kissed him impulsively.  It was the most spectacular and magical kiss EVER!!  It just FELT right, and it was the feeling I'd been waiting for my whole life :)  SO cheesy, but so true.

    We've been together ever since, and knew before we returned to the States that we'd end up married.  Eight months later we were engaged and 22 months later we were married :)

    This picture was taken shortly before our first kiss.  I'm aware that is not an attractive face, but it's still a special picture to me :)

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    HumarockBride    January 2, 2010   Boston, MA

    We just realized (from me reading this thread and then us chatting about it) that our first kiss is almost EXACTLY 7 years before our wedding!  (The first kiss was Jan 3rd, our wedding is the 2nd Surprised)

    We never realized it because we actually dated really briefly for a while, broke up totally not thinking we would ever get back together and remained friends, then well obviously we got back together about 4 years ago and so I always thought about our "second first kiss" as our first kiss - but in reality, there was another one!

     
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    mandalynn17    June 19, 2010   Medford, OR

    Our first kiss was about a month after we started dating (he was nervous!) while we were enjoying a rainy night in watching Sleepless in Seattle (which happens to be his favorite movie). 

    I was pretty sure he was "the one" by the time of that first kiss.  We had been friends for about 5 years before we started dating, so it's not like I had just met him!

     
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    LeahNHeath    July 17, 2010   Tulsa, OK

    LOL yes I do! I kissed him the first night we hung out! We went to a frat party with our groups of friends our freshman year. We were dancing. Whic is funny because my FI DOES NOT dance. All of a sudden he kissed me. It might have been a little bit of "liquid courage" because he says he'd been trying to get my attention all semester but I was too busy for him.

     
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    sunshinebride    July 30, 2010   California

    ours was the first night we met.  yep.  longest one-night-stand ever ;)

     
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    alishaneva    May 2011   Lancaster, PA

    We had just met the night we first kissed ... we were at a friend's house, sitting on the couch, watching some nondescript movie and it was so very sweet. The whole room seemed to melt away - I don't even remember who else was there!

    I seriously had a feeling that night that we were going to have a great relationship ... it just felt so freaking right!

    Keep the first kiss stories coming, I'm loving these!

     
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    penguin    June 7, 2008   Berkeley, Ca

    Oh my gosh, how sad I don't remember :( I think it was in a bar and it was NOT romantic.

     
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    Laylabelle    November 7, 2009  

    In the parking lot of a bar. Sounds really classy, no? Best part is, he walked me out to my car and four hours later we were still standing there and the place had closed. He walked out on his tab!

     
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    CorgiTales    February 1, 2011  

    haha we kind of had two first kisses, in my opinion. 

    First kiss #1- Date two. We'd done dinner and a movie and he walked me to the door. We had that awkward kind of stand there moment. I especially was feeling awkward because FI is like a foot taller than me and I'd never dated such a tall guy and I didn't know how to even hug someone that tall. I kind of went in for this weird awkward hug and he just gave me a peck on the lips. I was way too busy feeling awkward and short to feel much of anything else except: no tongue? 

    First kiss #2- Date EIGHT. I was losing patience. No more pecks... no more anything really... what the heck boy?? heh. We were at his house watching seinfeld on the couch. I got up to go to the bathroom and when I cam back he was sitting on the other side of the couch. Weird, but I just sat where he had been sitting and immediately he leaned over and gave me the BEST (real!) kiss. I said: What took you so long?! He said: I can only make a move from this side and you always sit on my wrong side before I could stop you! hehehe

     
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    LeahNHeath    July 17, 2010   Tulsa, OK

    lol Sunshine Bride!

    That's exactly what i was thinking... longest one night stand :)

     
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    cinemaparadiso    July 16, 2015  

    Yep, third period study hall. (Yeah for high school sweethearts!)

     
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    daniellemybelle    June 19, 2010   Baltimore, MD

    Ours was very memorable. We were just friends, and I had been out of town, and we'd been flirting over text message all weekend. When I got back, I went by his apartment. We were talking on the couch and he kept being really awkward. I said at one point, "You're not very good at this, are you?" And he kind of turned away embarrassed, and so I took his face in my hands and kissed him, and then asked, "Better now?" Haha :)

    The next day he told me it was the best kiss of his life because I really cared how it felt. Yep, he was smitten!

     
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    kericita    May 12, 2012   Dallas, TX

    Ours was memorable, but not because it was fantastic.  It was our first date but we'd known eachother for two years before.  It was in the car in my driveway when he was dropping me off.  It was both of our first kisses ever so, it was pretty awkward, with not knowing where to put hands and stuff.  HAHA, thankfully the second kiss was much better.

     
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    Mermaid1082    September 4, 2010   St Louis, MO

    Yes, it was our 2nd date.  I had been waiting all night for him to make the first move.  As he was leaving, I just grabbed him and kissed him.  It was the official moment we went from friends to "more than friends."

     
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    tbk041710    04-17-10   Augusta, GA

    I do remember.

    Our technical first kiss was on the day we met.  We were cast as bf/gf in an independent film, and we had to kiss for the movie.  It was awkward because I had known him for all of two hours and there were people around just staring at us.  We like to refer to it as "our worst kiss"

    But what we consider our first real kiss happened about a month after we were dating.  I think it was our fourth date or so and we had gone to the movies.  I had tried to get him to kiss me prior to this, but being raised a southern gentlemen, he would not until we had gone out a few times.  It was dark and he was dropping me off at home.  I was telling him bye in my driveway so I gave him a hug and thanked him for a good time.  The whole time I was thinking "Just kiss me!" When I turned to leave he grabbed my hand and spun me back around and gave me the perfect sweep you off your feet kind of kiss, that quickly led to making out lol. I still get butterflies thinking back on it. :)

     
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    RecessionistaBride    January 28, 2012  

    I know it happened on our first date, but I have NO idea when!! I was so nervous & scared... our entire first date was a blur.

    I do, however, remember the first time he grazed my ass on our first date. lol I called him on it :)

     
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    emmybren    June 25, 2011   Boston

    What I consider our first real kiss and when our actual first kiss are to huge differences:

    Our actual first kiss, was on new years, we were walking home from a friends house. When we got back to his house I had asked him to do something but whatever it was i don't remember cause the next part shocked me, he grabbed me a laid one on me out of the blue and walked out of the room! I stood their in shock. We both ended up blowing it off as some tipsy new years eve silliness. 

    A couple weeks later he was having a hard time with a family problem and needed someone to talk to. I went over to his place and we talked for about 5 hours. We were laying down snuggled up and I could hear his heart beating really fast. I asked him why and he said it was cause he wanted to kiss me again so badly! We did and we've been kissing ever since :)

     
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    luckyyou    March 20, 2010   Philadelphia, PA

    I remember it like it was yesterday!!

    We met outside the restaurant he was working at and went up in the parking deck so I could see his car. We were talking and what not, blah blah, when all of a sudden he pulled me really close and gave me a kiss.

    He totally took my breath away - I knew right then and there that he was the one!

     
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    KMSull    August 7, 2010   Lexington, KY (via Atlanta, GA)

    Is it terrible that I can't remember what date it was on? But I do know it was at my apartment building at the bottom of the stairs. He was going home (it was one of our first dates) and I wanted to check my mail and we were talking and he just... did it. He just kissed me, just like that. And it was so fun. I had ALWAYS been the girl that would kiss the boy first if I wanted to, and no guy had ever kissed me first (I'm intimidating like that). I was impressed.

     
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    daydreamwanderer       DC

    @corgi - omW I love that story about your 8th date. aMAzing (and hilarious). 

    Ummmm.... J and I ... yes, I remember our first kiss. However, I cannot talk about it on a public board, because... I might lose my job over it. No, seriously.

    If you want more details, PM me.

     
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    Wish I had a cute story like many of you!  Like oh so many first kisses we were drunk.

    The first time he tried to kiss me I denied him because I assumed he was just trying to drunkenly hook up.  When we did finally kiss it was at a party after a game of flip cup...but at least at that point I'd become fairly confident that he was actually into me when sober.

    Ah, college!  Gotta love it!  I guess it symbolized the beginning of a romantic relationship (if you can call making out on the couch in my friend's dorm apartment romantic...) for us although we'd been seeing each other in a non romantic way for a while.

     

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