(Closed) Do you second guess everything?

posted 5 years ago in Themes
Post # 3
4687 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2013 - Upstate NY

@HVbride:  Well that’s the most important thing!! I find myself second guessing a lot. I’ve changed my flowers, my dress and my colors.  I had a 16 month engagement so I “had time” to change everything ya know?

Post # 4
1159 posts
Bumble bee

@HVbride:  Hello month twin! I’m second guessing myself too! It is so bad…i second guess everything. I think it’s normal. Lol

Post # 5
738 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I’ve actually found that once I’ve made my decision and purchased/put down the down payment that I’ve felt pretty confident. i waffle around like a crazy person until I finally make the desicion though! I didn’t give myself a whole lot of time to plan (engaged for a year before I started, with 6 months left to go – I thought people who needed a year to plan were crazy, needless to say, I was WRONG haha) so I had to make my decisions and stick to them pretty quickly when it came to the big stuff – dress, caterer, tent, rentals, ect. It’s all of the little details I’ve been driving myself mad with! 

Post # 6
1326 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I second guess everything in life. I’m a very indecisive person so it was bound to happen with the wedding. Fiance is total opposite of me, so he’s been great with the wedding planning. The minute I try to second guess myself, he reassures me I made my first decision for a reason and to stick with it. 

Post # 8
8580 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2014

Yes, I’ve second guessed things that were just silly.

Our colors are Ivory & black, with hints of pinks.

For awhile, I was wondering if I should have chose white, instead of ivory.. with the uplighting in the venue, and the lights dimmed low.. you won’t be able to tell they are ivory, so I don’t know why I was worried about it.. but I was!

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