Post # 1
So, DH and I work out of town and are away from each other for 30 days at a time. He’s mentioned a few times that he’d love for me to send him some sexy pics of me for when he “misses me” *wink wink* lol
Thing is, I don’t know what to send…or if I want to have pics of me *like that* out there (I learned my lesson the hard way with some slightly provocative, but not terribly inappropriate, pics years ago that spread like wildfire through school after sharing them with the wrong person).
I know it is for DH and that he wouldn’t show them to anyone else, or let them get out of his possession (or even let anyone else know he has them in his possession to begin with!), so then why do I keep avoiding it?? I dunno…I’m just acting weird about it for some reason and need a little push of support to go through with it.
So what about you? Any qualms about sending the SO sexy/intimate pics of yourself to help him get through your time apart? 😛
Post # 3
I send them to DH while he’s at work sometimes. He LOVES them! I think it’s really sexy and that he appreciates it. If you don’t feel completely comfortable, make sure you don’t include your face…just the body. 🙂
Edited to say; I usually send pics of me in my undergarments. Very rarely completely nude.
Post # 4
How does he want you to send it by email or by phone? Personally i’m not comfortable sending certain things by email due to hacking and viruses. I had a viruse once that sent out random already sent mails to everybody in my inbox. Yeah not fun.
Post # 5
Why wait until he is out of town?
Post # 6
@bells: completely agree! I only send through phone not email.
Post # 7
My FI is never away from me for more than a few hours, but I have sent him lots of those sorts of pictures in the past. He LOVES them.
Post # 8
@bells: It would most likely be sent through my phone..
@Sunflower–girl: …like you suggest, we might have a little “photo session” at home together and he can just upload pics straight from the camera onto his computer. The only thing is that we are apart right now, and won’t get a chance to do this until the end of October when we’re home together. So until then, sending by phone would be the only way.
@MARIE901: Thanks for your reply! 🙂
Post # 9
Nope – I don’t know that I want pictures of me (like that) out there in places that can be seen or intercepted by others. I feel like it is just asking for trouble.
Post # 10
I sent my boobs once through text. (he was not out of town). Big mistake. He sent back little Jessie. I was mortified. I felt like it was completely out of character for him and like I was with a porn star not my sweet fiance. I told him how it made me feel, he apologized and we went back to nudity face to face only, lol!
Post # 11
He always asks for a photoshoot, but I’m not confortable, first of all I don’t love my body and it really creeps me to have those picture out there. But I might consider it sometime.
Post # 12
@Mrs.KMM: That’s how I feel about it too. I trust my FI, but I don’t trust technology and other people 😛
@Coffee cup: Yeah, this is the reason I’m considering doing a boudoir shoot- they stay classy enough and make sure you’re comfortable. But I’m really struggling with the cost… they aren’t cheap.
Post # 13
@galloway111: Exactly! It’s the technology that I don’t trust. I’d have no issue with doing a boudoir shoot and having a photobook in our bedside drawer. Maybe we’re just strange!
Post # 14
I think it’s a sexy thing to do. I also agree you should do what you are comfortable with.
I keep mine a little lighter and fun. Once while out shopping I tried on some lingere in the store, took a picture in the change room and said I’m thinking of buying this little outfit…
It is a nice surprise, no weird pressure. it’s kind of cute and they love it!!
I have also sent other body parts. I never send my head in a nude or innapropriate shot. I agree you never know what glitch could happen and sometimes the guys who love you now may be hurt and angry later. experienced that too. very stressful. I actually had the police interviene. super embarrassed. Lived and learned!!
Post # 15
Oh yeah…. we do that. 😉
We’re very, very careful, though, and keep the pictures in secure files on our computers, then delete them from email or our phones. I also only send them when I know he is expecting something and has his phone/computer with him. DH loves it, and I do too. It’s sexy, makes me feel confident, and I find it’s a good way to maintain intimacy from a distance. He would never, ever show them around to anyone either.
If you need ideas, google boudoir pictures, and look at some photography sites for ideas. It’s not too hard to copy, but just give yourself time and be patient. Good lighting also helps.
Post # 16
Yes. 🙂 Of course he likes it, but it also makes me feel more confident about my body.