Do you sext your SO?

posted 3 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Do you sext?
    Yes, all the time! : (21 votes)
    23 %
    No, never : (44 votes)
    48 %
    Only if we're separated for a while : (26 votes)
    29 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    193 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: May 2015

    @hisgirl10:  Nope.  I’ve heard of wayyyyy too many stories of things getting into the wrong hands.  My FI would never spread a photo or message from me intentionally, but a couple of his friends are known to pick up his phone and play around with it.

    Post # 4
    Member
    744 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    @hisgirl10:  I send my SO flirty texts and if he is out of town occassionally I will send him some pics but my rule of thumb is I wouldn’t send any pics that I would be mortified if my Mom saw.  So, I will send pics but nothing more than what a bikini would show.

    We have fun with emoticons.  I started sending him the purple eggplant as a penis and the joke hasn’t gotten old yet.

    Post # 5
    Member
    6525 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: September 2013

    @hisgirl10:  LoL yes, I do. especially if we are away from eachother, if he is away on business or a vacation w/his guy friends.

    i think its fun and keeps things fresh

    Post # 6
    Member
    1134 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2014

    Sometimes. I think it can be fun. But no pics though, way too risky!

    Post # 7
    Member
    4513 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    No way. I have sent texts to the wrong people before so I will not dare risk sending a message like that.

    About a year ago my DH attempted to start a sext with me, but guess what… he sent it to his FATHER by mistake. HAHA! Yeah… we don’t sext 😛

    Post # 8
    Member
    965 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: January 2014

    Yes, all the time, but we have rules. Not when the other is with parents or at work.

    Post # 9
    Member
    422 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: April 2014 - Rebar

    @hisgirl10:  lol yes!! i send random pics every now and then. With notes like remember this pic or this dress or … lol its fun to see his reaction. i honestly love seen him excited!!

    Post # 10
    Member
    965 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: January 2014

    For those of you worried about pictures, you can always use snapchat. We both have it, but only use it with each other, so there is NO chance of sending it to the wrong person.

    I also work OOT, so we have to supplement our time apart more than the average couple.

    Post # 11
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    6964 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2015

    @hisgirl10:  I send him flirty texts often but not full on sexting. We did that a couple times while we were dating but not living together. And I sent him a pic while I was gone for a week. The most recent time I was annoyed that he was on his phone in bed so I turned over, took a boobie shot and sent it to him. 😛 That got him off the phone. 

    Post # 12
    Member
    498 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    just flirty texts or pics sonetimes….not often…makes him excited to come home to me sometimes

    Post # 14
    Member
    4513 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    @hisgirl10:  ehh you’d be surprised haha. It can happen easier than you think. I’ve only ever missent benign messages, but I had been pretty sure I checked who I was sending it to. I am convinced that my old iPhone had a glitch because it was happening pretty often.

    And yes, it was awful. At least it wasn’t anything too scandalous since it was just the first text he sent, but I’m pretty sure his dad could interpret what was going on. We were 26 at the time, but it is still so embarassing.

    Post # 15
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    917 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: February 2014

    Nope. The notion grosses me out and I have a strict “no nude photos of me” policy. No matter the situation. Yes, we’ve traveled without one another for weeks at a time. Still no need to sext in our relationship.

    Post # 16
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    1134 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2014

    @adoc86:  I got a sext from some random person once, and I was like “uhhh you have the wrong number”

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