Post # 1
My fiance and I do not live together yet, and since we work seperate shifts, we usually only see each other 2 or 3 times a week.
Obviously this makes the opportunity for sex few and far between, which can sometimes be annoying and frustrating, but I think more so for him than me (of course)!
To “hold him over” he is always asking me to send him naked pictures! I don’t have any moral/ethical issues with it, but I kinda don’t get it.
I mean, he’s seen me naked a thousand times. And I’ve “sexted” him 100 times. It always looks the same! Which is why I never asks for pics of him. I find him attractive, obviously, but I’ve seen him naked. I have a mental picture. Why would I need it on my phone??? lol
So I don’t understand why he wants a new picture once a week.
I usually feel silly doing it and always check whose name is in the “send” box 400 times so I don’t accidently “sext” my cousin or best friend or something. OMG how mortifying would that be?!?!?
Does anybody else “sext?” Why or why not?
Post # 3
Guys are visual creatures! We don’t sext but we used to back when we were dating/engaged. Maybe I should this week since I’m off work and he’s not.
Post # 4
@Stace126: DH and I were in a LDR for about a year when we first began dating. I was actually surprised that he didn’t want me to send him any pictures to help him out during our time apart. I almost felt.. upset? in a way. I kind of thought it was sexy and would help us both out if we began to talk dirty via phone/text, but he just wasn’t into it.
I think it’s kind of cool though that he’s asking you for the pictures though. It just means he finds you extremely sexy and needs a visual of you each time so it doesn’t get “boring” or “repetitive”.
Post # 5
I don’t sext with my FI, because he’s never initiated it. I did with an ex. I think it is fun if they are into it. I like the attention!
Post # 6
@Stace126: my fiance and I do it sometimes during the week if I’ve been super busy with school and not home much. I love doing it because he is ready to attack me when he gets home lol guys are just so much more visual than women. I don’t get all hot and heavy from pictures, but I love descriptive text messages.
Post # 7
When we were dating, I would send him suggestive messages. Maybe surprise him with a naughty photo once in awhile, he loved that. Not full on sexting or a naked photo every week…..we were just not into that.
Post # 8
when we were long distance, i’d send him pics. i didn’t like to because i was always paranoid that someone else would see them, but he was always asking for them, so i’d send him one occassionally just to get him off my back for a while. now that we’re married and live together, he can see me in my underwear or naked pretty much every day, but he still likes to have pics.