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Do you Share Your Covers?

posted 3 years ago in Newlyweds
  • poll: Do you share your covers
    No , but we have our reasons! : (21 votes)
    25 %
    Covers! we don't even share the same room! : (2 votes)
    2 %
    Yes , dosn't everyone? : (57 votes)
    68 %
    other : (4 votes)
    5 %
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    BunnyBlue    03/7/09   Sunny South Florida

      How do you sleep? Hubby was joking last night that it's just not normal that we don't share covers.It's true I have my blanket and he uses a sheet. He's a polar bear and I freeze. When it's really cold (in fl yeah right!) we share but I am a cover hog and end up stealing them anyways. just curious on how many others don't share the covers.

     
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    SansSerif    8/30/2009   Lansdowne, PA

    two sets of covers are our secret to a lasting long term relationship!

    Were both cover hogs, and neither of us can make up our minds if we want them on or off throughout the night. And i am a "nester" i have like 5 pillows and i make a coccon out of my quilt and... hmm maybe two beds is a good idea lol!

     
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    lilneko69    August 2, 2008!   New York, NY

    We work out quite well. We start out sharing, then at some point in the night, DH gets hot and kicks the covers off, but I'm a cover hog, so I end up coccooning myself with ALL the blanket he kicks off. 

     Then early morning, he will get cold again and burrow his way in somehow. More often than not, he'll wake me up to give him back some blanket.

     
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    Gerbera    August 7, 2010   NY

    We tried sharing covers at the very beginning but either him or I would be freezing at the end of the night. So each have our own blankets. And I'm definitely a nester too, I have a light cotton blanket and my nice thick goose down blanket. Our dog also sleeps with us and she is a complete bed & blanket hog. Poor FI freezes becuse she likes to sleep with him at night.

     
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    tessabella76    September 12, 2009   Ohio

    We share covers. We've been sharing a bed for about a year and it seems to be working out. Sometimes he'll complain I steal the covers and sometimes he steals the covers. But it's not usually a big deal because we share a small (full size) bed and we're both snugglers.

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    grumpybear722    January 13, 1992  

    We try but it doesn't work out so well. We now have 2 comforters on the bed just incase! :) We also have 2 cats that sleep with us at night and they take up their share of covers! I wouldn't have it any other way though.

     
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    mary-alice-me    May 24, 2009   Kentucky

    We share. Usually he's warmer than I am but it works out okay, we also sleep really close together so I get his body heat Do you Share Your Covers? :  wedding Icon Wink

     I don't think my response should have been, "doesn't everyone" -- but we do. I can see it not always working!

     
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    rosychicklet    September 27, 2008   Boston, MA

    We did share at first, because I liked having my own comforter to wrap up in, but my husband (boyfriend at the time we moved in together) didn't like that.  He was really adamant that he wanted to share and snuggle up together.

    It took me a couple of weeks to be comfortable sleeping without a comforter wrapped around me and actually sharing, but I got used to it.

     
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    ejs4y8    June 20, 2009  

    The covers are mine! ALL MINE!!! Muah ha ha. I also skirk to the middle of the bed and end up getting pushed over to "my side" sometimes. I don't share well...but i'm learning! But then again, maybe cramming on a full sized bed one weekend a month isn't helpful.

     
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    missbean    August 23rd, 2008   Canada

    At the beginning we didn't share covers - we would each have as many blankets piled on ourselves as we wanted. Now, we are using our duvet, so we kind of have to. :)

     
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    CHK    July 10, 2010   Northern Idaho

    Honestly, one of the only things I miss about being single is sleeping by myself! In the middle of the bed!

    We try to share. We have a top sheet and down comforter on our queen size bed, which keeps us warm even when the house gets down to 60 at night. We have found out that apparently my behind is the hottest point on my body; sometimes I'll have to roll over and stick my butt out of the covers while keeping my legs and upper body under! I think I'll register for a king duvet when we register for gifts, just so there is more to share!

     
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    HumarockBride    January 2, 2010   Boston, MA

    We have one set ... and I just steal them.  Plain and simply. haha. It's ok though cause he's a hot body anyway.  We start the night under the same set, but typically within 30 minutes i'm all wrapped up and snuggled and he's coverless and chilly. But it works for us. :)

     
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    MissGoodie    July 24, 2010   Coquitlam

    We are not capable of sharing. Well, I am not capable of sharing, I am a big time blanket hog. We each have our own covers, if we didn't he would freeze every night as I also insist on having the bedroom at sub-zero temperatures before I can sleep.

     
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    vistagirl    march , 2010   Oregon

    i use mine and "share" his! I am bad, once i'm asleep i am a covers thief! I sleep like a burrito. He keeps a comforter next to the bed in case i steal both.

     
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    BunnyBlue    03/7/09   Sunny South Florida

     I'm glad someone else uses the burrito reference! LOL I just showed him this and he says he feels "more normal" now LOL. I do hog the bed too ,  would LOVE a cal king! maybe someday! 

     
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    ali925    May 23, 2009   Chicago

    heehee...this was a funny poll, but fun to read the replies! 

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    MsAnnaLytical    March 13, 2010   Orlando, FL--finally with my FI!

    I make myself a taco during the night. I roll up in the blankets...all of them. Even if FI gets up and gets another blanket, I must add that layer! It's bad. We're not quite sure what to do about that situation once we actually live together...I think he's doomed to be very cold at the moment.

     
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    Janna19    June 7, 2008   New York

    Yes we share, but our secret to the cover wars was to get a king size comforter for a queen size bed....it works great!  although I destroy the top sheet since I never used to have one - he finds it essential and I get all wrapped up in it

     
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    JennyBryde    September 18, 2010   Moline, IL

    We are both cover hogs and both in denial of cover hogging fault.  Mornings are interesting. 

     
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    MrsWoohoo    01/02/09   Bay Area, CA

    We start off sharing the comforter and/or blanket, but sometimes I wake up to his side on top of me. Thankfully, this works out because I'm usually colder than he is. :P

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    chelseamorning    November 1, 2008   Washington, DC/Atlanta

    Wow, I had no idea there were so many troubles with cover-sharing! We share with no difficulty. But we have a big bed and big blankets, so there is room for us both to manipulate them as we wish.

     
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    travelchick    July 2009   New York

    we share, but we have a plan of action. when when the bed is made, about 2/3 of the duvet is on my side of the bed.  then throughout the night, he pulls the blanket toward him everytime he moves (regardless of how much he started with) and by the morning , i still have enough blanket that covers me.

     
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    empyle1    June 21, 2008   Iowa

    I guess I get the best of both worlds.... My husband works nights 6 nights a week, so I usually have a king bed all to myself!  When he isn't working, he still likes to keep his body on a schedule, so he'll stay up most of the night.  He comes to best about an hour and a half before I get up, so we cuddle for a bit and then I get up.  So we both get to hog the covers without the other person getting cold.

     
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    contrarymary    October 17, 2009   Placentia, CA

    i am always colder than him! i usually have about two blankets and about three pillows and he will toss off the blankets and find the sheet! but somewhere around 3 or 4 in the morning he tries to take back the top blanket so that by the time we wake up, our bed looks like a total mess! ugh. 

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    Serya    October 7, 2011   Frederick, MD

    I work nights, he works days so five nights out of seven we don't have an issue - as for the other two days...

    We have 2 blankets. He has a super heavy, really fuzzy one that is waaaay too hot for me and has a texture that, quite actually, irks the heck out of me. He says he needs it because I freeze him to death (ideally I like the house at about 65 degrees fahrenheit when I'm sleeping, he likes about 78{waaaay to hot for my New England bred self}). I use our lighter bedspread.

    We also have a top sheet issue. I hate not having one, he never uses it. It always ends up untucked on his side and shoved over to mine. Do you Share Your Covers? :  wedding Icon Biggrin

     
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    Niki    05/31/2008  

    We used to have a tug-of-war at night but I now know the solution.  Make sure the bed is made before getting under the covers.  If you get lazy and don't make your bed from the night before, the sheets are all skewed.  We haven't had any problems since I started making the bed.

     
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    tatrifon    2/13/10   nyc

    I voted other because although we try to share, the fact of the matter is that my fiance is a cover hog!  though I'm sure he'd say the same about me.....  In the end we share covers, but they inevitably only cover one person at a time!

     
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    mdarrah    4/4/09   Los Angeles, CA

    Well, in theory we share covers.  There is only one set on our bed.  That being said, we've both been known to roll away with all the covers or to fling them off and bury the other one. :)

     
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    underneathy    05/02/09   southern california

    We each have our own comforter so that way we can toss and turn and not bother the other one.  It works out this way...

     
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    ipodgirl    August 8, 2008   Living in Bay Area/Wedding in Cancun

    We have our own as well, same reason as BunnyBlue.

    Husband is always hot and I'm freezing all the time. Sometimes we'll snuggle a bit under mine (I have a big thick goose feather comforter that I use almost year round) and then he moves back to his thin blanket later on.

     

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