(Closed) Do you sleep best alone or with your SO?

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Do you sleep best alone or with your SO?
    I sleep best with my SO there. : (113 votes)
    61 %
    I sleep best alone. : (59 votes)
    32 %
    Other (tell me in the comments!) : (13 votes)
    7 %
  • Post # 3
    6015 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: March 2012

    haha he sounds like Darling Husband.  We start out cuddling then he does this deep sigh thing and I roll on my tummy.   We fight about the covers so we have a quilt &a blanket so each gets something.  You would think that I sleep better without him, but I’m used to him now and if he’s not there I wake up looking for him lol. 

    Post # 4
    641 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    I sleep best when hes with me,
    I probably sound lame, But I get creeped out at night by myself, plus the bed is soo much colder. Luckily we’re both big cuddlers! It works out good 🙂

    Post # 5
    8463 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2013

    I sleep way better with him because I’m afraid of the dark.  If my Fiance isn’t there, I have to have my dog with me to cuddle.

    Post # 6
    2457 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    Definitely sleep better with my Darling Husband. I sleep pretty good alone too, but I highly prefer he be there. I fall asleep much more easily and comfortably when he’s there holding me 🙂

    Post # 7
    3357 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    Darling Husband and I cuddle before sleeping. We can’t sleep hugging each other – too hot, sometimes he’s restless, I’m a light sleeper.

    That said, we both can sleep alone no problem. As it is, I’m out like a light on a comfortable surface or in a comfortable position.

    Post # 8
    2651 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    It’s too quiet if he’s not sleeping next to me! Haha, I know many of us complain about snoring SOs, but I’m so used to it that it’s so disconcerting to be in silence. Then again, my dog also snores loudly, but I guess I’m used to it in stereo. 

    Aside from that, I just love sleeping next to him.

    Post # 10
    10453 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: February 2014

    I sleep better alone actually. He snores and thrashes around in his sleep!

    Post # 11
    4659 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    There’s pros and cons. Generally I sleep best with him there, just ’cause I’m used to it. But on the occasions where I sleep alone (he’s away or I am) I usually have a tough time falling asleep, but then sleep a little deeper with no one else moving around. 

    The biggest issue is if I have nightmares, which I have on an extremely frequent basis. Multiple really disturbing nightmares a week, sometimes. He’s very sweet and helpful when one strikes. If I’m alone for them, my whole night gets fouled up and I’m awake for a lot of it. Much easier and more pleasant to deal with when he’s there to ground me in reality. 

    Post # 12
    88 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    @Pinkmoon:  I hear you on that. HAAATE the sound of loud snoring. But the nights he doesn’t snore so bad are awesome. 

    Post # 13
    10367 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2010

    I sleep best in my own bed, but if my Darling Husband is actually in the house. I can’t sleep if i’m being touched, if there’s light, sound, or movement.

    I basically suck at sleeping.

    If I could build a sleeping closet that I could totally close off from light and noise, I totally would.

    Post # 14
    372 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    I sleep well alone and with him, but we really aren’t social sleepers and I sleep well pretty much every night, despite circumstances. Fiance, on the other hand, has a hard time sleeping when I’m not there. It’s sweet.

    Post # 16
    192 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: December 2013

    @Bebealways:  i have this issue with nightmares too!! Extremely frightening ones and 3 

    or 4 a week. What is with that?!

    Defo better off with SO about even with the snores and other noises 🙂 

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