Post # 1
I love my FI, but sometimes I really wish he would look a bit more excited about everything! I must admit, I am a overly excited person and pretty much want a world where everyone jumps up and down at good news, lol. I know he is looking forward to the wedding, but I reeeally wish he would be a tad more interested in the planning and meeting vendore process- any other bees’ with similiar wishes?? 🙂
Post # 3
@WillowH: Eh, sometimes I do, but I know secretly I really like having the control over MOST of the details. He was more interested in the music, the readings, and the tuxes we were choosing… everything else, meh. After all, we ladies are the ones who have ideas about our weddings before we’re even close to getting married. 🙂
Take it in stride, think of it this way: you could have a groomzilla on your hands instead. :O
Post # 4
Hi Willow! Omigoodness, YES- my FI loves to talk about the music for the wedding but the rest pretty much bores him.
I think it’s kind of a long shot to expect most guys to get excited about floral centerpieces and invitation design, etc…
I get excited about certain things with my girlfriends, and the bee community!
Post # 5
Yeah, I definitely had to drag him out to meet with potential DJ’s. It’s also been a challenge getting him to go look at wedding rings. He doesn’t care about the planning, he just wants to be married already. I guess I can’t really blame him.
Post # 6
ive been trying to get fi to go get fitted for his tux for 6 months…yes SIX months lol. i picked everything out, gave him a couple options for suits, put it in an envelope with the deposit and wrote the address and directions to the closest mens wearhouse. i did get him to go in once but it was prom season and there were a ton of teenage boys getting stuff for prom so we left. i keep reminding him and he says he will get to it. im about ready to go pick them out and tell him to suck it up butter cup!!
Post # 7
@cr6zy: Lol, I feel much less alone now, its not like we are asking them to get ecxited over flowers, its stuff they kind of have to do! in order not to show up naked, or, in my case, actually having a contract and wedding ring when the time comes 🙂