Post # 1
my current guy is on the smaller side of average endowment wise and ive noticed that i dont always do the same things for him as ive done with guys of bigger size like cater to them both in and out of the bedroom, making meals, buying things, etc. and im definitely not as wild or kinky in bed with the smaller fellas, it seems to be a subconscious thing with me as i dont do it purposely but i find myself attending to the more hung guys needs more since i tend to be a size=orgasms type of girl, how about you ladies?
Post # 3
I’ve only been with DH so I can’t really speak to this but considering that your thread last week showed that majority of Bees didn’t find that bigger = better, I’m guessing that those same Bees are therefore not going to cater more to bigger guys.
Post # 4
No, if I’ve committed to a relationship, I do what I can to show that person I love him, regardless of whatever his size may be. I just try to be the best possible significant other I can be, and not doing things because of something he can’t control makes me speechless.
I get that initially it’s subconscious for you, but you’re obviously conscious of it now, so maybe that’s something to work on.
Post # 6
I think you should work on changing that.
Post # 7
+1 on the “um, no” side of things.
Post # 8
Agree with PP’s. What if a guy treated you differently because your chest size or waist size wasn’t what got them off?
Post # 9
I agree with PP. This is a real problem.
Post # 12
If this is the second time you’re bringing this up, then maybe you should think about if this is an issue for you. Sex is important in any relationship, and if you’re not digging it now, then you definitely won’t be digging it later.
Post # 13
um NO this is a probelm!!!! Why are you comparing the “size” of your guy to how you treat him?
I have never thought this way before, im surprised anybody would….
Maybe you need to find somebody you really care abou, lovet and want to do things for and be with before you sleep with them so you dont have to compare their size to how well you will treat them? I
Post # 14
Hell to the no. I base my treatment of him on how much I love and care for him, and on how well he treats me, too. The size of his penis doesn’t play into it AT ALL. I dated and slept with a guy who was much larger than my current SO, but he was a total jerk and deserved to be treated as one. His penis size didn’t make him worthy of any type of special treatment, just as my boob size doesn’t make me worth of any special treatment.
Out of curiousity, does this mean you treat the guy you’re sleeping with on the side better than you treat your SO? Because that would be really sad, and based on your previous posts, I feel badly for your SO.
Post # 15
I’m gonna go with the “um, no” as well… I can’t see any reason to treat someone differently based on how “hung” they are. Should a man treat you with less care if you have smaller chest than other girls they’ve been with?