- 9 years ago
- Wedding: September 2009
The other night, fiance and I had a little fight. Well, not really even a fight. I tried to talk to him about wedding stuff after he got home from work and I thought I waited an appropriate amount of time. But he kind of brushed me off. Then I asked him if we could go for a short boat ride after dinner. He said yes but then ended up watching tv (i’m unemployed so I do that all day). So I got all emotional and hurt and pretty much left him alone until he finally figured out I was being too quiet and something was wrong. We talked it out and we are totally ok.
My question is, do you talk to you MIL or FMIL about your fiance or ask her advice? Do you call her when you are mad at him? I don’t because I’d rather work out our problems ourselves, but I remember my SIL calling my mom all the time when she and my brother would fight. Your son did this, your son said that, etc. And he would call and complain about her! Finally, my mom told them to talk to each other. But I got to thinking about that the other night. Is there ever a time you would ask your MIL/FMIL for advice on resolving issues between you and your SO?